If your partner had cheated, would you ever take them back?

[Justinfirelake]

Would you? Would it depend on how long you had been going out with them and whether there were children involved? Would it depend on how often they had cheated before you found out? Would it depend on who they had cheated with ? e.g. best friend, close relative


Would how they apologised for it sway you in any way?

[Illusional]

i don't think that applies as much as how sincere they are. if they were truly sorry that they have done what they did, and you feel as though you can trust they will never do it again, i probably would give them another chance. raverboy

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I'm the kind of guy who doesn't get many chances so when I do I let too much slide. I'd probly always take them back. I'm too familiar with the pain to let it bother me anymore.

[Illusional]

hrmm...i don't think that you should take them back because you feel as though you don't get too many chances at relationships. you should be with a person because you want to be with them, not because they are willing to give you a chance. raverboy

[Zekk_T_Strife]

There lies the problem though. No one that I want to be with gives me that chance.

[Illusional]

well do you feel that you set your standards to high? or what about those that would like to be with you, yet you don't give them the time of day? it can work both ways. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

She has 3 stikes with me.

[Illusional]

well why did you take her back a third time?? after twice, i would blame yourself for not learning. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

I am Chris·tian and I believe in forgiveness.

[Justinfirelake]

The question is why not take them back?

[Zekk_T_Strife]

You believe in forgiveness but not in loyalty? Remember the commandments buddy. Adultery. I'm not Christian, but I think that's one of them. And to answer your question Illusional, there aren't any girls who wanna be with me. I'd give anyone the time of day, which to them makes me "too special of a friend to date." I'm in college now, shouldn't that bullshit line subside in its frequent use at all? Or was I created as nothing but a friend?

[Justinfirelake]

If I'm with some one I am very loyalty to my partner I am not the cheating type.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I was talking about your partner. Would you forgive adultery? A direct breach of your beliefs?

[Justinfirelake]

hummmmm.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

The sword is a double blade my friend.