My whole story, help

[Single4ever]

thank you
i'll try to be honest

[Single4ever]

ok wtf is happenin

am i beeing too paranoid or what

just to remind you: when the date was over she said we would definetly have to see again before I leave for month and a half

that night i sent her a messege, said i had a great time and wish her good night
she answered next day in the afternoon sayin she fell a sleep when she came home and next day forgoten her phone and went out whole day...

today i've send her a messege if she would like to go tommorow out, and she replyed 5 hours later with story she didnt have money to text back and that she cant go out cause she has a meeting with her (girl)friend, and that she hopes there will be a second chance


am I paranoid or she's not that into me? :/
if she's not into me, if she's not dying to see me, why does she say "hope to see you soon", "we have to see again" and stuff :/

[Single4ever]

anyone? please discuss :/

[vashti]

Just wait at least a week or two before you try talking to her again, and the ask her out. If she turns you down a second time without offering an alternative plan, then forget about her.

[Single4ever]

Just wait at least a week or two before you try talking to her again, and the ask her out. If she turns you down a second time without offering an alternative plan, then forget about her.

i'm leaving in 3 days for a month an a half... she said she wants to see me before i leave and she said in the message last night "i suposse there will be another chance"

but yeah... I wont send her anything, if she wants to hear me again she will have to contact me

[Single4ever]

ok... so she came on MSN and she contacted me first and asked me how am I...
so we talked for a while, and I mentioned that I have 3 more days here and she said wow lucky you, you're going home :S :S
she didnt even mention our meeting...

also, yesterday she said in the message she has a meeting with a friend today, but today on MSN she said she had guests at house whole day and that she's tired...

well, she stayed half an hour, then left cause she's sooo tired...

i told her to contact me when she gets some time, and she replyed "sure! byeeeeee"


WTF !?!!?


EDIT:
well my firend told me something that is possibly the truth... she said that this girl finds me great but not enough to work on getting it on higher level... in other words she's not that into me :/

comments?

[Single4ever]

ok... so today my opinon changed

i'm thinking this way:
maybe she expects me to call her on a date, maybe she's old fasion way girl
if i dont call her, she will think i'm not that into her and just end it
i'm thinking on telling her the truth, how my firends told me to put her on fire and let her call me, but i just cant do that cause i really like her and I cant risk not seeing her at least that one more time and be 100% sure will there be something between us


:/ or not? xD

what do you say?

[Single4ever]

i would like if someone would reply to me...

ok, so i've asked her for tomorrow on the MSN and she said she has to babysit her brother and sister, so she really cant, but maybe could, but mostly not...
then i've said, ok see you in autum
she: what? when are you leavin?
i: on thu, but i could stay few days more, it's not like i have to be there instant...
she: i dont want you to stay here for me, i cant garantuee the day and hour, it's not like we know each other alot, you know... dont organize based on me
i: ok, have to go study bye...

then 10 minutes later, she contacted me again, and said am i mad... of course not, really... I've said

so basicly, she's not into me, mostly i've expected that, but now i can go on, focus on other things.... just dont know where is the problem... ok i'm not the hotest guy out there, i have some extra weight, etc etc but still i want to know the reason why every girl who finds me great over the internet suddenly changes her mind when they meet me


please comment, support me, anything