Need advice

[sadlysingle]

Hi, i am 22 and have been single since i was 15. I only had 1 relationship before then.

I have a crush on a guy i went to high school with. When we first started chatting on msn a few years back we would talk every day for hours and unfortunatly i didn't have to courage to ask him out and when i did he was seeing someone.

We still see each other and chat on Facebook every so often, but he is in another relationship.

I don't know if im still crushing on him as i just really want a relationship.
I had a dream last night of a guy i know (not him)saying he loved me and i woke this morning just wishing that i had someone who did love me and who i could love.
I don't go out very often to clubs etc and spend most of my time with my family.
There are also no men where i work so no hope of meeting anyone there.

Any advice for me apart from going out to meet someone, cause i do not want to go out looking for someone in the clubs, there all drunken prats in the clubs where i live.

Thanks

[God Eros]

Don't go looking for love because you won't find it. End of story.


You can put yourself out there and follow any lead possible. Like go out to the coffee shop or library and start talking to someone with only friendly intentions. All you can do is make yourself more presentable and approachable.

[love82]

True. Second that. Love comes beautifully when it's natural. It's hard to say who you might bump into in supermarkets Perk up your style, boost your morale to meet more people too.