so confused!!

[SolidSnake]

I met this girl like 2 weeks ago,and I like fell in love with her, only that there was a BIG problem, we were dating other people. so since I'm so stupid and retarded like that I dumped my 8month girlfriend that I love so I could go out with this new girl, then she came over and we kind of made out (yes she cheated on her bf) and she told me she liked me a loit and that the first kiss we had was the best of her life, and mine too.....so I started going all crazy and like falling in love but then 2 days later after missing her so much I went to her best friend's party to see her but her bf was there and they were all happy and I didn''t understand cuz she told me he was being an asshole and that they were over. so I just hide in the corner behind the coach cuz I couldn't take it, then she saw me and asked me what was wrong. so I told her I couldn't stand seeing them kissing and laughing then she said she couldn't dump him but that he was still kind of an asshole then she said shes never felt what she felt when I kissed her before and then she gave me a kiss...on the cheek!!1 and a hug.
and now I'm all confused cuz she told her friend she lies me a lot but she can't brake up with him now. and next saturday we are going together to a concert and her bf isn't so I don't know what's going to happen
oh yeah, and my ex is now like my ****-buddy
what should I do????

[swimmingNreverie]

Lose the new chick and go back to your ex.

This girl is going to keep stringing you along. What's preventing her from staying with her bf AND hanging out with you if she can manage it? She obviously will cheat on her bf with no problem (since she already has), and she knows she can go to you and get what she wants too. She's messing with your head and you're going to end up hurt in the end. And since your ex is your **** buddy, then she's totally still into you because she wouldn't subject herself to that if she didn't want to be with you.

And you, if you DO love your 8month girlfriend, then stop being a prick and go back to her--otherwise you're going to lose something really great because of a temporary lust that is just messing with your head and taking whatever she can get.

[shenmue]

just like she said. This was almost me. But I like the username man, SNNNNNNNAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKKEEEEEEEEEEE!

[Cybog]

You messed up. You should NEVER convince yourself you are in "love" with someone after 2 weeks. Its obvious now that this was a bad move on your behalf.

Get rid of any ideas of doing anything with this fling. Plead and beg to your ex and get back with her. To hell with the one who is using you.

And for future reference, anytime you, and the girl, are BOTH cheating as the premise of your relationship....do you really think the 2 of you are going to work out?

[HooKaH]

how could u say u "love" someone and then want to get with someone else...i dunno bout u but if i say i love someone then no one can get in the way