how dose one get over another - Love Forum

Grim-Life · #1 (**permalink**) 27-07-04, 04:19 PM

ok im a 17yr old guy
and like usual there is some one who yada yada yada i think you all know the deal right
WELL SHE HATES ME!!!!!!
just like every other girl in the school
there is no chance that i could get her and i have given up
HOWEVER
i cant stop think about her
i know that its not posible and was never ment to be
but i cant stop loveing her (and yes i said love very strong word but when you feel like i do then you have the authority to do so)

and i need a cure
i want to know a easy step to GET OVER HER!!!!
its realy effecting me, my work and every thing around me

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GBRaul · #2 (**permalink**) 27-07-04, 11:06 PM

Same here mate, jus that i m 1 year older than u. I think that one's first love is always so special, and one would always feel something special for that someone. So, like was said in a thread I started, just break all contact. Time heals all wounds, or so I hope. I think that if you finally meet someone who can make u forget your first love, ah... that's the one. Wonder if this is gonna be of any help though... If anyone has some really good ideas I would like to hear (read) them too!

Innova · #3 (**permalink**) 28-07-04, 11:47 AM

As hard as it is; Time, keeping yourself busy, and removing things that remind you of her are all ways of healing.

Grim-Life · #4 (**permalink**) 28-07-04, 04:44 PM

thanks guys im getting help from my friends (EVERY THING REMINDS ME OF HER) but yeah im going to try the above sugestions and "fingers crossed" ill get over her

GBRaul · #5 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 10:20 PM

Everything reminds you of her... yes that's very common. I think the worse thing is if you don't even need anything to remind you of her cos you two go to the same college (like me) or something like that. Oh well... getting out of there at the end of the year. I half hope I would see her again but I know I should be wishing the exact opposite instead.