bad advice for a friend - Love Forum

Grim-Life · #1 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 05:02 PM

I GAVE BAD ADVICE AND NOW MY BEST FRIEND HATES ME

ok here is the deal i have too realy good friends one is a girl the other is a guy and they fell in love however the girl was to afraid to even talk to the guy and this was after they had gorn out 2wice and she came to me for advice AND I GAVE THE WRONG ADVICE now she dumped the guy and the guy found out that i was the cause of it AND NOW HE HATES ME what the hell should i do

Innocence · #2 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 05:25 PM

OKay....as everyone knows...I'm not the best when it comes to advise, but becasue you have given me such excellent advise in the past, I will try to lend a hand!!

I would confront both of your friends ... sit them down, and tell them that you were doing what you thought was best for both of them, that you were only trying to help, because you were being a GOOD FRIEND...really bash it into them!!

You have such a lovely personality from all the helpful advise you have given me, and these friends of yours aren't really good friends if they can't see that you were only trying to help.

If they don't accept that you were only trying to help, then they aren't really your best friends after all.

Luv Innocence xxx

Grim-Life · #3 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 05:49 PM

well the thing is its the guy but im not sure if he isnt just realy pissed off from getting dumped come on wouldnt you be pissed off at your friend for getting you dumped oh well it will all unravel itself sooner or later i guess ill take my own advice and just LET THE TIME FLY DUDE!!!!!

Curlz · #4 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 05:52 PM

The thing about advise is that it is up to the person asking for advice to decide whether it is good or not. Everyone is accountable for their own actions. As for getting back the trust of your friends, I'd suggest what Innocence said. The fact that you will show them how much the friendship means to you and that shit, ie. life, happens and that you only had good interntions will go a long way.

Innocence · #5 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 05:54 PM

Hey Grim

Of course, they'll come crawling back!!!

... they'll realise what they are missing!!!

Maybe this girl of his, was trying to get you jealous!!

... don't mind me...just making the situation harder for you, but this girl might be the one that likes you and thats why your friends pissed off at you!!

You sound like a sweet guy so this might be the truth!!

Luv Innocence xxx

Grim-Life · #6 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 06:00 PM

do you know how deadly horribal that would be

not only would daniel kill me but the rest of the students in the school will preform demonic rituals just to make sure that i go to the 9th layer of hell

lol

even if she did like me she knows i got a MAJOR CRUSH on another girl and i know the reason why she broke up with daniel lol something about being scared and not being able to talk to him again and she wants to become friends again so she could talk

wow you like my online personality i try and be as honest to who i am on here wow thats a first woot

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Grim-Life · #7 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 06:18 PM

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The thing about advise is that it is up to the person asking for advice to decide whether it is good or not. Everyone is accountable for their own actions. As for getting back the trust of your friends, I'd suggest what Innocence said. The fact that you will show them how much the friendship means to you and that shit, ie. life, happens and that you only had good interntions will go a long way.

thx alot curlz ill take the advice innocence gave me oh and thx as well inocence lol (ah i forget no one)

Innocence · #8 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 06:27 PM

Wooooooooooooooooooohooooooooooooooooooooooooo I'm mentioned!!! :p

Well...I would like to thank the academy...ummm....my mum and dad...*wipes away a tear* ... lol....seriously though

.. your a great guy...as I have said many times before...and your friends will realise what a mistake they have made!

They'll be back, if not...I give you permission to kick my ass!!

Luv Innocence xxx

Grim-Life · #9 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 06:49 PM

lol thx guys for the help i think ive said it too much now lol oh well thx

Grim-Life · #10 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 06:51 PM

hey innocence you seem to be around my parts since where on at the same time almost i was just wondering if i could add you onto my msn list you also sound like a great person

Innocence · #11 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 07:36 PM

Sure you can!!!...I've sent you a PM with my address in there!!

Speak to you soon...
Innocence xxx

GBRaul · #12 (**permalink**) 29-07-04, 08:11 PM

About this advice thing. I think that people who take advice from their friends and then blame everything on them are real pricks. I mean friends are just trying to be helpful and you tell them to go to hell just cos their opinions do not cover all scenarios? Come on...

Anyway, that friend of yours is probably just extremely pissed at being dumped right now. I mean who wouldn't? And some people just like to blame other people and not themselves, or just start shooting their mouths when they are pissed. So I guess you should not blame him and just take things as they come!

If he is gonna be pissed with you all his life, then don't bother about him.