he's going - Love Forum

zas · #1 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:13 AM

i dont know if anyone remembers but i posted saying a guy im seeing was thinking of moving to spain. well ive just spoken to him and he's going in 10 days. im devastated

Pretender · #2 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:15 AM

That's sad news. I didn't read your first post but if you didn't tell him how you felt about him and that you'd like him to stay then there's nothing you can do about it.

zas · #3 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:18 AM

i've told him everything, i dont want to loose him, we'd never see each other etc. and i know theres nothing i can do. he wants a long distance relationship but being brutally honest i know it wouldnt last. i feel like disappearing

Pretender · #4 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:23 AM

I've never had a long distance relationship but it works out for some people. It wouldn't work out for me though because I like the little intamacies of him holding me or putting his hand on my lower back. Those are the little things that matter the most. Not to mention a little peck for no reason can go a long way.

zas · #5 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:24 AM

exactly. i'd never see him, i'd just loose him i really dont know what to do, im hysterical

Pretender · #6 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:27 AM

calm down and write it in a journal. Gotta move on to bigger and better there is more than one guy in the world, even if u don't believe it at the moment you'll find someone that will stick around.

zas · #7 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 07:32 AM

right now, i just cant think or describe how i feel

sweet200 · #8 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 10:01 AM

i know what you're going through. It's going to be hard at 1st but you get used to it. When I left my country I thought missing my b/f would kill me. We used to email each other everyday and I spent more on the phone than anything else. After 1 year however things changed totally and I even fell out of love with him (good for me since we weren't all that compatible). I broke it off and I have no regrets. If you decide to pursue a long distance relationship- mine lasted 1 year. It can work depending on the time factor. Take heart we're here for u.

zas · #9 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 03:14 AM

well now i've decided i could try a long distance, because the thing i DONT

zas · #10 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 03:15 AM

(sorry) wanna do is loose him. but i'm gonna tell him i want a proper relationship. theres a chance he'll come back, but if he doesnt im hoping i'll forget him and it wont be as painful as loosing him so quick ?