I messed up with my boyfriend - Love Forum

Noemi23 · #1 (**permalink**) 18-08-04, 08:08 AM

I have a big problem! I meet this guy at my college orientation. We started going out the next week. After a week he had to go see his parents. When he came back he didn't call me or talk to me online. I got mad and i called him like 10 times and send him an email saying that i have to see him because he has something that belongs to me. I also said that i don't want to get back together with him. I know that he cares about me.
I care a lot about him and I know i've made a huge mistake. I need some advice...what should I do? Thank you!!!

Rêveur · #2 (**permalink**) 18-08-04, 08:49 AM

I don't understand what mistake you've made. How do you know he cares about you? He obviously isn't showing any kind of affection if he can't even find the time to call you up. Not to be rude, but it sounds like from your post (although you didn't give much info so I can't judge that accurately) that he probably didn't consider himself your boyfriend. He dated you for a week and perhaps lost interest and isn't considerate enough to tell you honestly, so he's ignoring you. I say move on, many fish in the sea and what not.

Pretender · #3 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 06:44 AM

My motto in life is live with no regrets. What you need to do to guarantee that you have no regrets is tell your bf how you feel about him and that you made a mistake and if he can't forgive you then you can let the relationship end knowing you tried to correct your wrong.

Devillish1 · #4 (**permalink**) 19-08-04, 10:53 AM

Together for a week and he was your bf? Wow! I've dated guys for months and never had that "conversation."

We all have done stupid things that we regret, like call too much or something, but all you did was move too early, not make some "huge mistake."

Try talking to him one on one. Maybe he's not ready to be all serious. Maybe he got some disturbing news when he was home. You will never know unless you talk to him, not stalk him!

sfalexi · #5 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 08:27 AM

Don't fall for a guy in ONE WEEK! This is just 'testing the waters'. Apparently he wasn't all that interested in you. So screw him and go find someone else.

Alexi

jslaughter · #6 (**permalink**) 20-08-04, 12:09 PM

Alexi - - so glad you are back!!!!

Noemi - college is an awesome time to get to know yourself better, and it's also a time of learning. You have just learned a valuable lesson, painful but valuable - things went too fast and he got cold feet. Concentrate on all the other new experiences out there - this is a great time in your life!