He's pissed at me all because of a stupid online conversation...

[xL0v3Su1c1d3x]

There's this guy I'm really good friends with and we like each other a lot, but he's a little pissed at me. The story all started last Thursday when I was spending the night at a friend's house. He got online and my friend, who doesn't like him anymore, instant messaged him on my screen name and was saying all these mean things to him. Of course, he thought it was me and I tried explaining to him that it was my friend, but I was fighting over the keyboard with her and she kept deleting the messages I typed. She also blocked him and unblocked him, which pissed him off even more. I wanted to call him and talk to him about it, but she wouldn't even let me do that because she thinks he's not "good enough" for me anymore.
I hadn't talk to him since then until he got online tonight. I instant messaged him and it took a long time for him to reply. He usually talks to me a lot online, but he wasn't talking to me at all. I asked him if he was still pissed at me because of the other night and he said he was. I tried explaining to him that it wasn't me and that it was my friend, but he wouldn't believe me. I asked my friend to instant message him and tell him that she was the one who said all that mean crap, but she wouldn't, and finally gave in when I told her he wasn't talking to me at all. She told him she was the one saying all that stuff, but he didn't care. I told him to please talk to me, but he said "no" and signed off a while later. He's back online again, but still won't talk to me. My friend is trying to make me get over him, and that's not making the situation any better. He got pissed at me about a month ago over something stupid too, but he totally forgot about it and things were fine, but now that he's pissed at me again, I don't know what to do.

[Illusional]

children children, first your friend does have a right to be mad at you. you may not have wanted your friend to say all that crap about your guy friend, however she did. what's he's probaby more so mad about is the fact that you let her do that. you probably could've stopped her but you didn't. even if you weren't in the room, a call after all this had happened probably would've made him realize that it really wasn't you. right now he might be thinking that you're lying to him which is why he's still mad at you.

secondly i think that your guy friend does like you. he's mad at you for something like this because he has interest in you, and now he's questioning if he should stay interested in you. also your gf, she does have a right to say how she feels, only she should keep those feelings between you and her. you can date whoever you chose, and she doesn't have the right to interfere with that. that is just being selfish. i suggest that you keep talking to your guy friend and be honest with him. apologize, and even go see him so that he will have to listen to you. raverboy

[xL0v3Su1c1d3x]

I actually did try to stop her from doing what she did, but since I'm a weakling and she's made of muscle, she beat me to it. I was still at her house the next day and wanted to call him so bad, but since I'm no longer "allowed to" at her house, I didn't. I'm thinking that I should call him and hope that he answers his cell phone this time so I can talk to him about it. Now that I think about it, I'm getting the feeling that my friend is jealous because him and I have liked each other for almost 2 years and we've been so close, but all the guys she likes she's only known for a few months and they only like her as a friend. Maybe that's another part of the reason why she doesn't want us together, set aside from the stupid decisions he's made.

[GBRaul]

Sorry if you find this insulting, but i think your friend is one BITCH!!! She has absolutely NO right to screw your life like that. How would she like it if you did the same to her? Anyway this guy here, just go talk to him face to face and explain to him how you've been explaining to us here. It's better than online or over the phone.

[Illusional]

that is another angle, maybe your friend is jealous. well whichever the reason, now she doesn't allow you at her house?? and you call this person a friend?? it's time to look for some new friends girl and maybe you still have a chance with this guy.. only time will tell. raverboy

[Devillish1]

How good of a friend is she to pull that crap? I've had friends try that, like back in high school and it gets old real quick! If she were any kind of friend, she would have talked to you first and expressed her issues with this guy, instead of just doing that.

Second, it doesn't matter if you are a "weakling" or not...friends can stand up to each other and tell them to knock it off without having to get physical.

Sounds like a lot more is going on here...

[xL0v3Su1c1d3x]

It's not that I'm not allowed at her house, she just won't allow me to call him on the phone or talk to him online anymore like I used to when I would go over to her house. I haven't even been friends with her for a full year yet and I usually don't get mad at her, but I'm getting really pissed at her about this whole situation. I was hanging around her tonight and she told me how her best friend, who is me, likes a retard. Yeah, pretty mature of her to say that, right? Well...I got online a little bit ago and noticed the guy I like was on so I thought I'd just give it a chance by instant messaging him and that probably wasn't the wisest decision. Here's the conversation:


Me: hello there
Him: ?
Him: what
Him: can
Him: you
Him: possibly say?
Him: huh?
Him: great
Him: buh bye now

Hmm...that sounds a lot like the conversation from over a month ago when he was pissed at me for something that I actually did do. Since then, every time he would get on, I wouldn't send him any messages. I waited a week or two and then decided to instant message him and he was really happy to talk to me. He didn't mention anything about what happened the past 2 weeks and it was awesome. I'm thinking that maybe I should do the same thing for this situation...unless I can think of something good to say to him that won't come out like a line of bullshit. I don't really find it necessary to apologize to him because what is there to apologize for? My friend was the one who did that shit, not me.

Oh, and I would go up to him in person and talk to him about it, but I don't really have a way to do that.

[Illusional]

two points... how old are you??, in that you're letting your gf tell you what to do. show some f*cking balls and call him yourself. why should you let another person tell you what you can and can't do. if she won't let you call him, stop cruzing with her. best friends are supposed to understand that their friends also have feelings and they should respect that.

secondly, your guy friend has been hurt. his trust in you has faded a bit and hopefully with time, it will be replaced. weather it will or not, that is completely up to him. raverboy

[Desinate]

Ive had friends pull this on me..
Mainly guy friends when im talking to girls..
Usually I just keep trying to stop them if just trying to move them doesnt work, i just hit them. haha!