no call since 4th date...

[Zekk_T_Strife]

In most cases, exceptions being a negligable minority, there is no need to go back to the person unless a good friendship is all you're planning. Even then some people are simply unable to remain friends with those they have once been romantically entangled with. But pulling back and reapproaching from another angle is a tactic that can and will work, but only after a somewhat extended period of time. If you try to do so too quickly they'll see through you and push you away even more. If you do it too late you're no longer a part of their lives and they won't care. If you've practiced this tactic before and have become a master of your timing then it's entirely possible you can pull it off. If not don't try it. Personally I'd advise simply moving on. He's not into it and trying different courses to change his mind is very time and effort consuming and will provide you with minimal results.

[Uncertain]

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Originally Posted by momo

SO now I have a new question for the guys or girls to I guess... If you didn't know whether or not you were really into somone would you make out with them and then decided or would you wait to make out with someone until you knew for sure so no one got there feelings hurt? See he made out with em and we had all these great dates and I can't kiss somone the way he kissed me if I am not into them so I don't really get what happened. DO guys just do things so differently?

I would make sure that I'm into someone or in love before doing anything.

But for most guys between 14 and 20, the whole idea is to make a girl believes that he's into her up to the point where she accept to have sex. After that, he leaves for the next girl or he sticks around until he gets bored.



Girls can do that too. It's pretty much what happened with my last girlfriend. She had physical needs and after getting them fulfilled, she moved away from me.

[BillyGalbreath]

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Originally Posted by zas

ARGH!!!!! you shouldnt have initiated the dates! men dont do being chased, just dont contact him and maybe he'll start to chase you.

Not all guys are like that. I am not. If a girl was to chase me I would love it ! But if I had no intentions of being with her, then I would let her know.. I wouldn't let it drag out forever. But come again... No one else is like me at all. I am out on a branch all by my lonesome self...

[KirstyM]

Be proud to be different in a world full of clones and copycats.

[Ratfish256]

Hey I am like you Billy, we need to put the rest of these guys in their place.

[BillyGalbreath]

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Originally Posted by Ratfish256

Hey I am like you Billy, we need to put the rest of these guys in their place.

We can't - we are strongly out numbered...