Does she like me?

[trueps2gamer]

So, since i'm usually a really shy person (at school especially), Anyone else have opinions on what you think i should do? I guess i could ask her to the homecoming dance....it's in 2 & 1/2 half weeks. Or at least see if she wants to go in a group (the same group that had that party over last summer that i invited her to)

[GBRaul]

Why don't you go on a date with her by yourself rather than in a group? You've got to let her know your intention subtlely, if not you might end up just being a friend to her. Go on one on one dates with her. If you are really shy, something like coffee would do. Though you should not just keep inviting her out for coffee and expect sparks to fly. Or watching a movie (preferably horror so she can throw herself all over you or soppy so you can comfort her while she's crying lol, or just whatever style suits you actually). Action dates always beat these kinda dates though. Dates like golfing, bowling, theme parks etc. but that's when you get to know her better I guess. It's really up to you. Do whatever suits your style. And ask her to the homecoming dance... by yourself. Only if she shows signs of uneasiness should you suggest the group thing, but don't be too eager to ask her out with the group. Don't be overly nervous. Just be yourself. Good luck!

[trueps2gamer]

yeah, it's really easy to just talk to her at school, but it's harder for me to ask her out....i guess that's normal to be nervous about asking someone you like out.

I don't really know what movies she wants to see but i know what kinds of movies she likes....we've talked about seeing a movie but have never done it...i know she loves the harry potter movies (which i personally think that they've gotten progressively worse) and she likes movies such as Pirates of the Caribbean (if only the next one came out sooner lol).

We haven't gone to see a movie because she was like incredibly busy all summer....she had stuff like mission trips and a vacation, plus she had a summer job lined up for a while but i don't think she went for it. She could only make it to 1 out of 3 parties She's also taking tumbling lessons this year (for cheerleading) and she's said that it's a few times a week.

It is kind of strange that this year, she's asked me for more help on homework than last year, claiming that she doesn't understand it especially chemistry which hasn't gotten hard yet (i find it kind of hard to believe that she doesn't get it since she's really smart) We haven't even started equations in Chemistry...we were just doing the introductory lessons (tells what the book will teach) She's asked stuff about chemistry, new tetsament, history (she took my paper b/c she just "Had to read my essay"), english, and algebra II LOL. the only other classes i have w/ her i can't help her w/ lol. She's taking independant French and i'm taking independant spanish (no teacher ). The other class is PE obviously lol.

[GBRaul]

Wow. Everything's cool it seems. Good luck! I think it's on track! Just find a time when you are both free. Come on, you've got to ask her out. Things get more natural as you go on more dates. And I think it's better if you decide where to go, what to watch etc. as girls seem to have this thing for guys who are in control. Though it's better if it suited her taste too lol. You could talk about how you liked the date after it or something like that.

[trueps2gamer]

Is it a good thing or a bad thing that she's been asking for help in classes? I mean, its not like she's trying to get answers....she's just been wanting me to explain things. She's been doing the work herself.

[GBRaul]

I don't see what's bad if you are sure she could manage it herself. She seems to be trying to get closer to you lol. And maybe she's trying to show you that she's not sapping off you and expecting you to do everything. She's just being... inquisitive. Just take things a step at a time. The first thing you have to do now is gather your balls and ask her out some time. You could do so for the homecoming dance if you don't want to ask her out too soon.

[trueps2gamer]

Yeah im almost 100% sure that she can do that work by herself. The other thing you have to remember is that she's not 16 yet and her parents don't want her to go out til she's 16 unless it's w/ friends.

What time is it there (as of your next post)??? it's 11:35 PM Monday night here
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[GBRaul]

It's Tuesday 4.23 p.m. now. Lol... I'm about 13 hours ahead of you. Alright, happy waiting till 16 then and don't think TOO much about her lol.

[trueps2gamer]

Some kids (a year older than me) said that i need to ask her to the homecoming....mostly because i said that i'm probably not going unless something comes up.

[J.A.X.X]

ok, sorry i dont no how 2 start a new post, im new, anyway i need help, so if u can help wit my prob id b very very greatful. ok theres this girl in my school who i really like weve gotten 2getha n broken up like six times, but last night she told me her deepest feelings and secrets and said she was dumb 2 let me go, is this time real or is it gonna happen again? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[jakki2903]

I'd just wait and see, try playing hard to get.

[GBRaul]

I jus moved ur post to a new topic, J.A.X.X.

[BeLoved0429]

I was a cheerleader for 8 years, all throughout highschool. Cheerleading is one of the most stereotypical sports there is. Some would argue that its not even a sport. Anyway, I think she will have a lot of fun joining the team, its a bonding experience and a challengeing one infact. Although shes going into it because other people want her to, she'll probably end up really liking it in the end.
I dont know about your school, but please keep in mind (even for those who arnt too familiar with cheerleading), Not every team is like those you see in the movies.

And you should definitly ask her out to the dance thing, it'd be fun!! And when she turns 16- take her out for sure, you seem to like her a lot!!

[trueps2gamer]

I know that not all cheerleaders are like the ones in the movies. it just so happens that most cheerleaders at my school are.

I talked to her about the dance but didn't get a chance to ask her to it
I told her that there was a chance that i may not go (since i've never gone to a school dance). She told me that i had to go since they "are so much fun" lol

She got to leave early too lucky lol....she went to st louis for the weekend. So, i talked to her right before she left and told her to have a nice weekend. She said "aaawwweee thanks" in her "emotional voice" lol (i don't know how to describe it; i hope u know what i mean) She just HAD to add "Hope ya have fun in PE playing volleyball" I don't like playing volleyball.....mostly because my whole class is really bad at it. She knows how much we both hate volleyball in PE. That's one example of jokes she'll play on me.

One of my teachers has "Lame Joke Friday" in which people tell "lame jokes" all hour. So naturally, the girl i like told him one and he actually said something really mean. He said "Even Lame joke friday has its limits as to how lame." The thing is, he tells jokes that were a lot worse. I know it wasn't very funny but it fit prefectly as a Lame Joke. She said "what do you call a boomerang that doesn't come back?"....."a stick"

Anyway I'll talk to her about the dance on Monday but the problem is, i think her parents would consider going to the dance w/ someone as going out.....so i don't think she's allowed to go to the dance w/ just 1 other person

So maybe i'll have to wait til she's 16 to ask her out

[GBRaul]

How about... not telling her parents? Lol... Oh well it's seriously up to her right? Just ask her and see if she's willing. If not, it's all cool. You're still young!