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Old 06-09-04, 06:04 AM
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Need to know what to do! Please!
Well let me try to explain this in absolutely full detail so people can tell me their opinoin and know all the facts. Last September I moved to Florida, I was kinda sad because i left all my friends. So in florida i was in all advanced classes, so all the kids in my classes were juniors (i was a sophmore). And in chemistry i fell for this girl in my class named Melanie. At the time i was 240 and 5'10 or so (very fat), so i dieted like crazy and worked out like crazy to make myself look better. Every time i could i would flirt with her and talk to her. . Well when it came close to the end of the year i finally had gained up enough courage to ask her out (Sort of). So I wrote her a note, it told her how i felt, had a small poem, and asked her out to the movies, and it had my email and phone number. (i figured this way would work out best for both of us since i didnt have to face rejection if she said no and she didnt actually have to tell me no) Well that day i went home and she never called or emailed me. I was really bummed the next day. But the next day in chemistry she walked up to me and said yes, but we didn't have much time to talk since class was just starting and i didnt sit next to her. So i was SOOO excited that whole day i mean the smile on my face must have been ear to ear . Well the next day i had a couple of minutes to talk to her and i tried to set up a time/day to go to the movies, but she told me she couldnt do it this weekend because she had to study for finals (which i totally understood). Later on that day i saw her in the halls and stopped her and asked for her screen name (aim) and she gave me a screen name, i didnt have anything to write it down on so i was relying on my memory. I went home and added the screen name to my buddy list (hoping it was right) and to this day that screen name has not signed on. Well i told my friend Jon that me and melanie were going out, so he went and asked her if it was true, and she said no ... which devastated me (barely kept from crying in front of my classmates). Well i didnt have much time to talk to her because of finals, but i got to hand her my year book before the chemistry final started and she signed it and i got it back. it said "Bryan: Chemistry has been absolutly fabulous... I'll See you this summer <3 Melanie" So the end of school came, and over the summer i kept thinking about her but i had no way of getting in touch with her, and she never called or wrote to me. The summer passed and this year when school started i saw her and i still have very strong feelings for her. Now is where i come to the part where i dont know what to do, Should i go talk to her about going out? Should i just realize that she only said yes out of pity and i should try to forget about her no matter how hard it is? And if i should ask her out, should i wait till after september 24th (when i get my liscense). From your point of view what looks like the best option?... Thanks in advance --Brian--
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Old 06-09-04, 06:08 AM
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i forgot to mention that by the time i asked her out i had made it down to 177, and i was 5'11-6'. The only reason why i did so good was because she was my motivation. Thanks again please tell me ur thoughts asap =D.
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Perhaps you should have gotten her number; the whole "Guy chasing Girl" thing.

Next time you see her, ask her out for a coffee. Coffe shops are normally relaxed environment where you can get to know her a little better.

Don't wait for her. Go after her.

BTW, Congrats on the weight loss. That's real motivation. But avoid bringing that up too soon to her. Once you guys become a 'couple', mention it and she'll be like "awwww" and be all over you
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Old 06-09-04, 06:47 AM
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Thank you, the reason i was thinking about waiting is it seems kinda lame imo to have your parents drive you to a date or w/e but i guess i could always get her to drive me . I hope your right.. anyone else?
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Yeah just go for it man, bite the bullet and ask her for coffee or something. At the end of the day you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Don't put all your hope into this though, be nonchalant and don't give a damn about the outcome - if she says no then it's only her loss.

Congratulations on the weight loss by the way!
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She said that the two of you are not going out in front of your classmates because... ta daa! The two of you were not going out! What else did you expect her to say? Don't feel so bad about it. And just ask her out! Good luck mate!
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