im confused can u help? - Love Forum

repsol · #1 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 12:42 PM

ok so....i have known this girl for about 2 years through school she is really awsome...but we just talk at school until recently about 4 days ago we started to actually hang out (out of school) and after the first time we hung out she says "you should defenitly give me a call tomorrow" so i did and we hung out and we had a blast so needless to say we have been hanging out all weekend and it has been great and i really like this girl but im scared to ask her if things will go any farther between us because if she says no out friendship will be "ruined"..so what do u guys think do u think she really likes me? i mean if i call her and leave a message she calls me right back and she always wanst to do stuff with me...so could u tell me if u think she likes me or what?

Ratfish256 · #2 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 01:08 PM

I would definately go for it man. Thats just me, but I am willing to bet that she likes you.

Uncertain · #3 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 01:10 PM

Take it easy and don't rush things. If the two of you are having fun together, just leave things as they are for now.

Sine-Nomine · #4 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 01:17 PM

I concur with what Uncertain said. You both seem to be having a good time, so just let them keep coming. Be a good friend to her and it'll work out.

-Shea

GBRaul · #5 (**permalink**) 13-09-04, 01:52 PM

How old are you? And you've only actually gone out for such a short time. It's too quick if you want to ask her if things would go any further. Girls in general are afraid of guys who rush things. You would almost definitely get a no. So just take it easy like some of the other posters said.

Rach · #6 (**permalink**) 14-09-04, 01:50 AM

Hmm, I would continue to hang out with her as you are. As long as you are having a good time together, it'll still make both of you happy. And if still a couple weeks or a month or so down the road you are still having these feelings and having a good time together, then tell her. But don't rush into telling her or tell her if you don't think she feels the same way, it might scare her away altogether from being friends and all.

Frebbiezadyke · #7 (**permalink**) 14-09-04, 12:06 PM

yeah darling get to know her more and see what she likes impress her to death about the things u two have in comom then when the time comes you too will get together