Confused?..

[not your star 5]

Hola! lol..well um here goes i guess..alrite i like this guy and yah im in high school..im not looking for anything serious im kinda young lol..well anywayz everybody says he likes me and "when" i do see him we talk and hang out for a bit..usually we see eachother at football games and things and thats the ONLY time we talk..and like ill pass him in the halls and he never says hi or anything and when he actually does do anything its jus a nod as he passes me..and he asked me to homecoming(online yah not even in person )and like i dont even know whats going on cause he doesnt even talk to me..and some say he may even ask me out at homecoming but how could we actually be dating when we barley talk..hes very independant and im independant at times but at the same time i need to feel needed and i need some affection..and im just not getting it and im not sure waht to do..

[Ratfish256]

He is scared. Try asking him out. If he is open around other people and just quiet around you than there is somthing he is hiding and there may only be one way for you to find out what that is.

[not your star 5]

Yah thnx..i know hes shy..i guess its cause he likes me..cause we were good friends b4 anything got like "serious" and at that time he wasnt very talkative either he was mroe intersted in listing to my conversations with other ppl and adding his little commetns radnomly but he didnt really start up conversations..i guess thats just how he is..but hes jus gotten to quiet..

[ltj5253]

from my very recent expierence of getting the same treatment, btw, im a guy, i say your getting screwed over. your the third string in his mind, same shit happened to me. it hurts. sorry to tell ya.

[not your star 5]

yah i do see what your saying..he could be screwing me over it is a possiblity but he is also very shy..i guess im jus looking for any reason not to belive what your saying because it hurts to kno that u could be tottaly right.. ..i guess im jus gnna ride it out and see what happens during homecoming..hes gtta still have some feelings for me if were going to homecoming..but idk..thanks for the help..anybody else got an opinion?..

[Jenrick285]

I think you know him better than any of us (character wise).
It could kinda swing either way, with him being shy , and not knowing what to really say, or he's is screwing you over.... or he's got stuff like cars, football, etc etc on his mind.

[not your star 5]

Well for anybody that was wondering things have gotten better today..he came up and talked to me in the hall and then after school we talked a bit and he hugged me so i think were doin fine..i jus think hes taking things a bit slower then most guys..so yah thnx to everybody that gave me advie the other times but ithink things are better now!!

[Ratfish256]

Ask him out =P