Have i scared her off?

[justforkix]

hi..

theres this girl i really really like and for the last few months we used to IM each other * a lot * - atleast 1 hour everyday and we never missed a single day. we had a common course and we worked together on our projects and stuff,

about a month back , she started avoiding me - and i later got to know that another friend of hers had proposed to her and so she was confused. she did not talk to me for a couple of weeks , always saying shes busy with something or the other..I kept sending her emails and IMing her everytime she was online but she never replied..

Whenever I ran into her at school she would give a sort-of-a-smile and did not even stop to say 'Hi!'. Whn I asked her she said shes busy.

I have asked her several times why shes avoiding me but she just replies - "Work pressure!". In the last 2 weeks I have emailed her probably 15 times and IM ed her everytime shes online - sometimes she says 'Hi.Busy right now' , other times she just logs off...

I dont know what to do :-(

[I BabyGirl I]

Umm, can you say stalker, Don't be doing that man. You are gonna not ever have her if you keep doing that. If you were doing that to me I would come back with a IM saying :Screw You: ...Give her time to sort out thing's going on and if she don't get back to you get on with your life. Just how life goes.

[kanzaki]

it's alittle intense. If she is keep on saying :buzy buzy buzy: all the time, i bet that u are pretty scaring her away from u. Relax, give it alittle time, tho i know that u are afraid that u will lose her, but u have to do so. This intense e-mailing n IMing will freak her away from u. I mean it

[Fillmore Slim]

she doesn't like you. move on.

[abercromqt20]

totally agreed. just give up, don't send her ANY more emails! she knows where to find u if the times comes. but really it doesn't sound like thats going to happen. just start the healing process now and move on