witchy woman - Love Forum

Nofearwindham · #1 (**permalink**) 22-12-02, 01:32 AM

damn it, this girl puts some kind of spell on me, whenever im not around her, she's all i think about and im all confident about askin her out and stuff, but when i see her i cant talk, i turn into a bumbling idiot, and this pisses me off, i think the only way i could talk to her honestly is if i was drunk.

anyways i need some tips to talkin to her, if u have any

Illusional · #2 (**permalink**) 22-12-02, 02:22 AM

haha build up your confidence, because if you don't, you'll never talk to her. raverboy

Rew · #3 (**permalink**) 22-12-02, 07:35 PM

The asking out jitters, just go for it. The worst thing that could happen is she would say no, (Unless you like a total bitch and shoves your face in it, but you wouldn't want to go out with a total bitch would you?). I've been rejected many a time, and I must say the worst part is asking, not the part afterward. Just spit it out!

Killerbabe · #4 (**permalink**) 23-12-02, 07:55 AM

I think for guys it's better to be rejected rather than being thought as sissy.

Nofearwindham · #5 (**permalink**) 23-12-02, 06:32 PM

im not worried about rejection, i dunno what the problem is

Nofearwindham · #6 (**permalink**) 18-01-03, 01:26 AM

oh man, she had her head down on a desk behind me, i just wanted to put my arm around her and hold her

Illusional · #7 (**permalink**) 19-01-03, 04:58 PM

well stop dreaming and actually live up to your expectations. raverboy

Niall · #8 (**permalink**) 07-03-03, 01:28 AM

[quote:44594f1d06="Killerbabe"]I think for guys it's better to be rejected rather than being thought as sissy.[/quote:44594f1d06]

Really? Is it even better than being thought of as an asshole or an obnoxious prick? That's pretty easy for a woman too say, since women still gemerally aren't expected to do a damn thing when it comes to initiating a relationship. A guy dosen't even have to be a sleazeball or lecherous pervert to be rudely rejected by women. I've seen this firsthand, where a guy approached somone he was interested in and did it in the most civil way possible only to be told "you're a good excuse to be a lesbian." (and no, this was not me, though it was someone I knew quite well.) I'm sure other guys could recount similar stories. This is not an isolated incident.

Equality means you accept the responsibilities and the obligations along with the rights and freedoms that go with it.

Illusional · #9 (**permalink**) 07-03-03, 05:56 PM

to sum it all up, shit happens to everyone, literally. raverboy