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27-07-06, 05:14 PM
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| | | Does he like me or not? Please help. Hey
Okay well here's my situation. I reallyyyy do like this guy but im not sure if he feels the same way about me and the only problem is that he has a girlfriend.
He has asks me questions before like if i've ever had a boyfriend before, if i mind the physical side in a relationship, what i look for in a boy, what i would and wouldnt do with someone, etc.
I also asked him out to my formal at the end of this year just as friends and he said yes, but us 3 (his gf, him and me) all go to different schools.
From what i've said (above) is it easy or hard to tell if he likes me or not, please give your honest opinions.
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27-07-06, 05:30 PM
| | | | He has a girlfriend, just stop trying. When he becomes single, at that point you should try to talk to him. Guys, unlike females, tend to be more direct with things, whereas females like the ****ing drama.
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27-07-06, 08:52 PM
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| | | Yeah, I wouldn't pursue him or think anything of it until him and his gf break up. He probably thinks of you as a friend right now. Nothing wrong with that, unless you can't handle it.
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28-07-06, 01:08 PM
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| | | Yikes, his questions seem really inappropriate for a guy with a girlfriend to be asking...
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29-07-06, 06:01 AM
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Originally Posted by vashti Yikes, his questions seem really inappropriate for a guy with a girlfriend to be asking... I thought the same, why would he be asking me these questions if he has a girlfriend???
Also from the questions he's asking me, do you think it means anything? | |
29-07-06, 06:03 AM
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| | | I think it means you should avoid him. He is up to no good. How would you like to be in his girlfriend's shoes? Yuck.
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29-07-06, 06:04 AM
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| | | Yeah, if i was his girlfriend i wouldnt be happy about him asking another girl these sorts of questions.
Do you think that this guy is just a flirt/likes me/or doesnt like me? | |
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29-07-06, 07:11 AM
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| | | Let me tell you something...
Never, I repeat for dramatic effect, NEVER even try to get romantically involved with someone who has any kinds of feelings for someone else.
NEVER You will regret it. I didn't think I would. But I did.
I speak from experience. If he likes you, so what? He'd probably just dump you and run off to the girl he's "had more experience with".
Move on. Find a nice single guy. We exist.
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29-07-06, 08:25 AM
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| | | ok
thanks all for your help. | |
29-07-06, 08:58 AM
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| | He wants to have sex with you, thats it. At least that what it sounds like to me.
A guy with a girlfriend, in a relationship asking another female who is obviously showing signs of interest in him, is asking her what she would do with him? is she into a physical relationship? c'mon.....  he's after a piece of your pie darlin' | |
29-07-06, 09:05 AM
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| | ^ Thanks for your help/opinion
But i dont understand why he might want to have sex with me cause he has a gf and i know that he has had sex with his gf so many times, so why would he might want it from me as well - Confused! | |
29-07-06, 01:25 PM
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| | | Sometimes the routine gets old, so therefore thats MAYBE why he's seeking you out.
It's kinda like asking the question why some people cheat? They are seeking something bigger and better or some sort of change or excitement. Of course the grass always looks greener on the other side, but when they get there, a lot of times they are disappointed.
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29-07-06, 01:36 PM
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| | | ^ ok thanks for your help. | |
29-07-06, 02:09 PM
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| | | Oh, sure, you can thank us for the advice, but are you going to take it?
Please do. Please. After I went through my similar situation, I wish there had been people like us telling me to change my intentions.
We offered the advice to help you. Please keep that in mind as your proceed.
Good luck with it all.
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