Why do girls want to be #1 priority? - Page 3 - Love Forum

blue · #31 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Illusional

let's all take a deep breath and have another beer. who's down for a heineken??

raverboy

im down for a heine right now !!!!!!! i have a feeling alot of us are going out drinking this weekend!!!!!!

nomas · #32 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 02:54 AM

hee, hee,... a heine..ha ha..get it? get it?? a "hind-ee".

Oh, man, that's so funny...

Freddie

Illusional · #33 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 03:03 AM

well maybe instead of simply picking up one of these girls that just wanna ****, you should try turning to someone else. looking for a girl in the library will be very different from girls that love to party. they will be more intuned with their studies and probably be more intereted in their grades as opposed to you and your grades. simply, if something isn't working, try something new.

raverboy

nomas · #34 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 03:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Illusional

looking for a girl in the library will be very different from girls that love to party. they will be more intuned with their studies and probably be more intereted in their grades as opposed to you and your grades. simply, if something isn't working, try something new.

raverboy

They'll also be a lot harder to talk to. There's a greater chance they don't want to be bothered.

Freddie

Fawn · #35 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 04:19 AM

This thread has gotton pretty long. although, there has been some truth stated here.
The forum can get hostile at times and some of the boys tend to get into arguments, but its mostly jokingly.

I've noticed most of your posts have been mostly impacted at women. Its understandable that any man can have a problem and girls will never understand guys either. I call it the circle of confusion. Nobody knows what the hell they are doing. But blaming women for something is not the best approach. Breaking up can be an issue to be a little hostile over, but assuming that all girls need to be priority #1 is wrong. That is just an assumption.

We all have our priorities and they are all different. As you said, keeping fit is one of your main priorities. To others it is school, or their kids, etc. Many things can change over time. SO can your priorities.

I don't know how your life is and how many hours you devote to this "social time," so its hard to distinguish whether these ex-gf's of your's are being selfish or not. For example, I only get to see my bf maybe 3-4 times a week for a few hours. I work 32 hours a week and he goes to school full time. So we are both very busy people. He understands that work is important and so is having money to pay off my school loans. I understand that he has a great future ahead of him and that school is an important asset in life.

Its a give and take situation. You need to find someone that understands your priorities, but you need to understand her's as well. Sometimes you can't always be together. But, spending even a few hours a day together is better then nothing. This time together is what keeps you from losing each other. Its a bond that you have to create.

Illusional · #36 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 05:22 AM

that is true freddie, but girls love to be flattered. i can understand if they are studying for a huge test, but you can always look in other places besides the library. say the cafe or the computer room. there are numerous places around school that one can look, and these girls aren't always the party animals. raverboy

BigTen#95 · #37 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 07:19 AM

" they will be more intuned with their studies and probably be more intereted in their grades as opposed to you and your grades. "

Ravboy

I don't know the way you "post" yet, or how to take what you say sometimes cause I haven't been here long enough.

But is that you sayin that I don't give a shit about my studies?

BigTen#95 · #38 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 07:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fawn

This thread has gotton pretty long. although, there has been some truth stated here.
The forum can get hostile at times and some of the boys tend to get into arguments, but its mostly jokingly.

I've noticed most of your posts have been mostly impacted at women. Its understandable that any man can have a problem and girls will never understand guys either. I call it the circle of confusion. Nobody knows what the hell they are doing. But blaming women for something is not the best approach. Breaking up can be an issue to be a little hostile over, but assuming that all girls need to be priority #1 is wrong. That is just an assumption.

We all have our priorities and they are all different. As you said, keeping fit is one of your main priorities. To others it is school, or their kids, etc. Many things can change over time. SO can your priorities.

I don't know how your life is and how many hours you devote to this "social time," so its hard to distinguish whether these ex-gf's of your's are being selfish or not. For example, I only get to see my bf maybe 3-4 times a week for a few hours. I work 32 hours a week and he goes to school full time. So we are both very busy people. He understands that work is important and so is having money to pay off my school loans. I understand that he has a great future ahead of him and that school is an important asset in life.

Its a give and take situation. You need to find someone that understands your priorities, but you need to understand her's as well. Sometimes you can't always be together. But, spending even a few hours a day together is better then nothing. This time together is what keeps you from losing each other. Its a bond that you have to create.

Thanks for taking me seriously, good advice

95

kronos51 · #39 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 08:57 AM

I think raverboy was suggesting that you jus ttry to go to an area where there's not likely to be girls that are just superficial and looking for sex. I suggest the same, I met my girlfriend just chillin before swim practice one time. She was a swimmer too , and I thought I didnt like swimmers at all but shes the exception

harhar · #40 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 09:02 AM

hahah shame

no wonder girls bitch about you

maybe try with guys next?

Illusional · #41 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 09:06 AM

95.. i'm saying you can always find a girl that is more interested in studying as opposed to partying. you're looking for someone who wants to be with you, yet doesn't want all your time. if you find a girl that is completly into her school work and studies, being that she will concentrate on her studies more than you, then you should be fine. you seperate your life into school and football. this girl will concentrate only on school which is why she will be more devoted to her school work as opposed to you.

raverboy

Jenrick285 · #42 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 02:07 PM

I wouldn't say no one cares, but its how you react....
and btw, it's all about a balance of things, and I don't think these girls want to be #1 priority, but I do think they do want to be somewhere in this week's top 10 listings every so often....

and huh? Steve is a girl?
*confused* but but steve.. ..... ... steve is usually for a guy...

But anyways put yourself in their shoes perhaps and see if you're into this girl but she's out with her friends, going bar hopping all the time.. working out, etc etc... Yeah sorta like that

Illusional · #43 (**permalink**) 04-11-04, 02:53 PM

yes, that's probably a better way of saying it all together.. put yourself in their shoes... or for that matter, think back to when you had to create all the discussion and it pissed you off. look at things from a different perspective. asshole. hahahaha..

i think that it's all fair game, you call me an asshole now i'm returning the favor. see, you get mad too easy. too much male testostorone running through your veins got up hype up.

raverboy