Ackward Phone Conversations...

[xareon]

I've been going out with this girl for almost 4 months now and now it seems when I call her its always the same old thing. "Hi, how you doing?" "Good, how are you?" "Good, well I just wanted to say hi" "Well hi." "How was your day?" "It was alright, how was yours?" "Awesome... well I just wanted to call and tell you that I'm thinking about you and I love you" "I love you too" (we've known each other for almost a year now) "Anyways, I'll call you later" "Ok, bye"

Now this is ok for some of the time, but every time? Does anybody have any suggestions for moving a phone conversation onto deeper topics? How to get her talking about how she is feeling and what her mind is on? Also... how do you start your phone conversations? I want to start them in the right spirit and catch her interest right off the bat, and just saying hi doesn't seem to do it.

[bluestrattos]

if you've been going out for 4 month with that girl, she should trust you and should be able to told you how was her day, the good and bad things that happened with her. Try to pull conversation, why her day was great or not, try to listen her when you're together, she might say things that she'll do in the week....

[Darkace]

lol i love those little call i call them sweet nothings

[abercromqt20]

this could also mean you've kinda hit a point where you the initial getting to know someone is over. like when you first start seeing/talking to someone you sometimes spend hours on the phone with them. getting to know them. but as you get alot of the basic getting to know you stuff out of the way most on what you start to talk about it just the small day to day things. this can be a good sign, that you are getting very comfortable with a person and know alot about them. if everything else in the relationship is good i wouldn't pay too much attention to this.