I need him

[sashna]

Ok
There's this guy in my class and i've liked him for like a year. I no its sad or whatever but i can't help it but i can't stop thinkin about him. I think how great i think we'd be together and i don't see how i can have a future without him. Not in a stalker type way believe me. I think i'm in love with him.
I can't ask him out. If i did i'm sure he'd say no, almost definately. And then things would get so awkward. U see we are friends and i don't want to ruin that. I couldn't live with myself if i ruined it.
Wot i'm askin is how can i flirt with him to slyly show him that i like him, but not be too obvious. Please help me. I don't no wot else i could do.
Wot do u think?

[Joe_Watson]

Just ask him out and be direct about it. If you are already friends with him, you've got great odds for success. Just come right out and ask him. Don't flirt. Just pop the question and see how he reacts. You may be surprised. Perhaps he has even been thinking of asking you out! There's only one way to find out. You can do this. Besides, these days girls asking guys out isn't at all uncommon. I hope this helps you and please keep us posted.

[BandoMan]

Yeah.. what he said.

[sfalexi]

On the DL, guys don't really like to be friends with girls that they aren't attracted to. I know I'm not friends with any girls that I don't like attractive and wouldn't mind dating.

[Tomek]

errr sfalexi talk for yourself ... I got lady friends and not in a attractive way, just friends

but agree with Joe_Watson ^^

ok i'm just gonna say it: if you aren't physically attracted to him he won't ask you out like that. and where are you from and how old are you? this is a major factor as well.

yeah... poopie.