Showing her that its not true - Love Forum

Matt_2K · #1 (**permalink**) 13-02-04, 09:04 PM

Hi Guys,

Right...........I like this girl, and she used to like me, but now she thinks that I only want her to get with her sister, which is totally not true because I would never ever do anything like that. I have got to show her how much she means to me, and show her that its her that I want and not her sister. Anyone else been in this situation or anyone who knows what I can do?

Thanks, Matt

ColdSilence · #2 (**permalink**) 13-02-04, 10:32 PM

You might come up with some reaction which reveals that you more like her sister such as her sister and you seem to be easily to have fun with each other so that she, the one you like, got noticed this kind of thing and it supports her reson that you don't even like her.

III Angie III · #3 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 12:43 AM

Silbling rivalry at its best! lol

Unless you've given her a reason to make false conclusions, there's probably nothing you can say to change her way of thinking.
Step out of the relationship for a moment and re-evaluate the entire situation.
If she's that insecure with the relationship, there's no way you two will be able to ever achieve a healthy, loving relationship.

Matt_2K · #4 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 05:04 AM

Thanks for the advice. I've sent her a valentines card. So maybe she will be able to work out that I sent it to her and not her sister. It's not like sibling rivalry because her sister is not interested in me like I am not interested in her.

Matt_2K · #5 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 05:42 AM

Oh and I did kinda give a reason for her to supect that. She said it was because I phone her sister alot, but thats only because its about her! because her phone is blocked and she wont unblock it.

MVPlaya · #6 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 06:39 AM

Sleep with her sister, that'll teach her!

sfalexi · #7 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 07:13 AM

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Sleep with her sister, that'll teach her!

Why stop there? Sleep with them both. I know I would jump on that situation if it was presented to me!

And play one off the other. When one girl pisses you off beyond a doubt, non-chalantly pull out a nice line. "That feels good . . . Oh yeah . . . but try this. . . I really liked it when your sister did that. . ."