Cheating - Love Forum

so_confused · #1 (**permalink**) 20-12-04, 03:48 AM

Do you think cheating is an indicator of a poor character or of a poor relationship and why? maybe it's both!

sfalexi · #2 (**permalink**) 20-12-04, 04:04 AM

yes and yes.

It shows a low willpower, low ability to be faithful, and I personally would not want a girl with a history of cheating.

Alexi

#3 (**permalink**) 20-12-04, 05:49 AM

I think it just means you can't be loyal to one person and you have no self-control.

Jenrick285 · #4 (**permalink**) 20-12-04, 06:43 AM

To me, cheating shows that the person has :
No integrity.
No respect.
No morals.

There's always the other side of the story as well, but you know if its so bad, if you're not getting your needs met, then why stay around in the relationship.

richardrli · #5 (**permalink**) 20-12-04, 12:28 PM

Yes, I think so to. But the problem is that many people take every sign as cheating too easily, for example if you were walking with your girlfriend and this hot looking woman just walked past and you turn your head to get a glimpse and your gf thinks that as some form of cheating then she has mental issues.

Crammond · #6 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 01:01 AM

@richardrli: i agree with you and your point of view.

but there is no strict "rule" which would say that from this point (any point) everything is cheating. So it's basiclly how people are teached by parrents or others about cheating.

For me cheating begins when you talk to somebody (who you know from before, personally) and the topic is sth you should talk only with your partner... I don't mind if she turns her head like richardrli said before, but when it gets personally, well, than it's on a bad road..

BandoMan · #7 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 04:04 AM

I pretty much agree with everything everyone said so far. It's lame to cheat. No self control, no will power. If you want new people, have the curteousy to end the relationship first, so you don't scar people, and give them the hardest damn two months of their life. I speak from experience.

IKnowEverything · #8 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by BandoMan

I pretty much agree with everything everyone said so far. It's lame to cheat. No self control, no will power. If you want new people, have the curteousy to end the relationship first, so you don't scar people, and give them the hardest damn two months of their life. I speak from experience.

Whoa...do we need to get a towel?

BandoMan · #9 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 09:33 AM

No. Get spandex. It stretches.