When to tell the other person you love them!

[Bianca81]

How long do you usually wait to tell the other person that you love them??

[emanresu]

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Originally Posted by Bianca81

How long do you usually wait to tell the other person that you love them??

It depends on how things are going - how it might affect her, how it might affect us, when I feel it. Within about 3 or 4 months, if at all, seems about on for me (but we're all different), and pretty much just as I feel it, though it might depend on how cautious she is, or how cautious I feel I should be as it means different things to different people and sometimes it might help to be more sure to prevent hurting, scaring away, making the mistake of saying only to later find that the person has more to them that's not as likeable (some people take a while to show enough of themselves), etc..

[OrionEyes]

How long... i guess it depends on everything!
Just whenever you think you know the answer will be 'I love you too'

never had that situation, but just my 2 cents

[abercromqt20]

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Originally Posted by OrionEyes

Just whenever you think you know the answer will be 'I love you too'

i have never thought of it that way, but that's basically my philosophy too! i know alot of people say you should say it as soon as you feel it. But sometimes it isn't as simple as that. I really don't like to risk scaring off the other person, so i usually let the guy say it first. obviously there would come a point where i would be like the is ridiculous and just have to say it. but that wouldn't be for quite sometime.

[OrionEyes]

True, when you say it as soon as you fall in love you'll have a risk of totally overwhelming the other, better say it when you allready know the answer!

[moeburn]

It usually happens to be about 3 days before they dump me.