please help

LoL!!!!!!!

wow, you're awesome. hehe denny's is good. do you have aol instant messenger?

[emanresu]

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

LoL!!!!!!!

wow, you're awesome. hehe denny's is good. do you have aol instant messenger?

Is it available through AARP?

No. Yahoo. I never use it, though.

I wish my girlfriend (ex) thought I was so awesome. Maybe some day she will forgive me and see that

you know what, you ARE awesome. just because a girl can't see it in you doesn't mean you're not. don't forget that shit either

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I try not to (forget it). I think I'm alright, but the slap and breaking up with her are hard to forgive. The former I will regret for the rest of my life. I've learned a lot through all of this, though. And maybe she'll find it in her heart to see the bigger picture. And hopefully, the bad won't cast too much of a shadow over it. I can now just be patient and do what I cn to communicate these things without driving her further away.

Keep up your good attitude. It'll get you far if you let it.

Dude, in every breakup you need to take lessons from it. Take whatever it is that you did BADLY and learn from it. Learn not to do it. Don't think you didn't do anything bad, because if you didn't you would still be in the relationship.

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Originally Posted by SomeLameAss

Keep up your good attitude. It'll get you far if you let it.

Heh.. good attitude is another one of my many specialties

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Originally Posted by DillWeed

Dude, in every breakup you need to take lessons from it. Take whatever it is that you did BADLY and learn from it. Learn not to do it. Don't think you didn't do anything bad, because if you didn't you would still be in the relationship.



Heh.. good attitude is another one of my many specialties

I'd never done something like it, was shocked that I let it happen - even if it wasn't intentional, and don't think I can forget it to let it happen again.

Anyhow, we still talk and get together pretty regularly and she wanted it that way, so I will hope and do what I can.

Try and look for other women. Don't stick around here bitching at yourself thinkin' about this bad shit. Because whether you like to admit it or not, the reason you feel bad right now is YOUR fault. Wanna know why?

EVERY EMOTION YOU FEEL IS A CHOICE

you know, when you fall in love with somebody it's nothing but a chemical reaction if a very very small portion of your head? that's it! don't feel bad, go get a blowjob and you'll feel better.

your thoughts control everything dude.


if you're in the shits again, just think about tits in your face, think about me, smile, and then try to laugh. fake laugh if you have to, but laugh. you'll feel better everytime.

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

Try and look for other women. Don't stick around here bitching at yourself thinkin' about this bad shit. Because whether you like to admit it or not, the reason you feel bad right now is YOUR fault. Wanna know why?

EVERY EMOTION YOU FEEL IS A CHOICE

you know, when you fall in love with somebody it's nothing but a chemical reaction if a very very small portion of your head? that's it! don't feel bad, go get a blowjob and you'll feel better.

your thoughts control everything dude.


if you're in the shits again, just think about tits in your face, think about me, smile, and then try to laugh. fake laugh if you have to, but laugh. you'll feel better everytime.

You're right, every emotion is a choice. Good to remember.

But, you're thinking I should give up on this and move on now?

Expand on that. Be honest.

Well, you basically cannot fight this. She isn't going to come back to you unless she realizes you've moved on. Once you move on, we'll have a different conversation

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

Well, you basically cannot fight this. She isn't going to come back to you unless she realizes you've moved on. Once you move on, we'll have a different conversation

I see. I should know what you meant so we are back to the old LTsK8er.

Seriously, do you really believe that?

No, not really.

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Originally Posted by emanresu

I see. I should know what you meant so we are back to the old LTsK8er.

Seriously, do you really believe that?

So, your thinking was to tell her what I told you previously. But, your sense is to move on. Fair enough. I can understand how one could see it that way.

I would be interested to hear your final assessment though, if such a thing is possible, Dr.

Never mind - you must be exhausted from all the banter. Have a good night and don't blow the resolutions too quickly next year

No, I can answer your question

yes, my final "assessment" is to move on and leave it alone, and if you avoid her calls and ignore her she will slowly start to want you back. *sigh*

Happy ****ing New Year
=[LT]sK8eR2gO < n'zizzle >

P.S. You should stick around the forums.. helpin' ppl is great, and talkin to everybody is fun at times too.

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

No, I can answer your question

yes, my final "assessment" is to move on and leave it alone, and if you avoid her calls and ignore her she will slowly start to want you back. *sigh*

Happy ****ing New Year
=[LT]sK8eR2gO < n'zizzle >

P.S. You should stick around the forums.. helpin' ppl is great, and talkin to everybody is fun at times too.

Thanks for all the consideration. You seem to be a good guy.

nfortunately for me, I am in a tough position, as I'm sure you see, as I fell into the trap of being the bad guy. If I hadn't, the wait and let her come to me would be reasnoable. However, I'm in a position of having to demonstrate to her that I care, that I've realized what I've realized, and that I really am good for her. Dropping that leaves a big ?, as I know it could be good. Wihtout just writing off the loss and moving on, how I go about that is the quandry here, it seems to me.

It is good helping people. You are good at it, as you know. All the best with it.

Thanks! Try gettin' Cybog_The_Bitch to know this.