How can i trust her? Help me

[maverick]

I have a girlfriend for over 5 years and even if we get along very well and it is like we've read the thoughts of each other there is something that really bothers me. When she is with me all is how it's meant to be very nice and cool. From mistake i saw her a few times with her business partners and colleagues and she is totally different and not in the good away.

She is transformed, another person that i can't recognize: she flirts with anyone, she laughs but is a different laugh not natural and with not a good meaning. The thing that she may sleep or share our most intimate gestures, thoughts and even laughs torments me. I could never imagine that she could be with someone else even if it si a one night adventure or just a small kiss.

I heard that some persons have a dual personality; just like our childhood heroes and they never reveal the other personality to their family, friends or official boyfriend. Thinking at this makes me torment because if this is also true in my case than everything i planed for us with will disappear.

It's like the two faces of a coin if one shines and it's very beautiful than the other must be very ugly and darken. I think how pure she is with me that the very though than she can be rotten frightens me to death.

Choose your partners carefully and try if you can to find her/his true personality, from my experience i discovered by accident in her email address some strange mails and when i asked her what it is with these mails she couldn't give me a straight answer like she always did.

Help me if you can with some suggestions.

[Cybog]

How can you be with someone for over 5 years and not tell them what is on your mind?

Talk. To. Her. About. It.

Is it really that hard?

You know her infinitely better than any of us do and we could never give you the best guess as to understanding her behaviour like you could.

You either approach her with the situation and tell her what you are thinking, or you don't and live in the shadows the rest of your relationship.

It's up to you.

[maverick]

Thank you for your advice and i will take it in consideration.

But sometimes is so hard to dicuss rather simple things and understand them.
I will do my best not to deteriorate the relation.

The only reason I didn't look at this thread the first time was because of your previous ads that were about ****in up people's...mailboxes?

LoL!

But yeah, I totally agree with Cybog.

My g/f of only 10 months tell me e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g no matter how small. even one time she said that i was talking to her with a tone of voice that she didn't like. the small things can actually be the biggest ass mutha*****s heh nvm

[maverick]

You got it all wrong i'm not going to 'beep' people's mailboxes it's only a help, a service, you name it. If someone has some sentimental problems or wants to know more about that person, to be able to make sure of it. To be able to check her/his partner mailbox. That is all and nothing more.

Thanks for the reply.