Quote of the month: "Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.
"~ David Byrne
If they're being flirty, cut to the chase. Don't dance around whether you're on a date or not, say, "I'm not sure whether to let you kiss me when I drop you off or not. Maybe I'll make you wait till our next date . . ." See how she reacts.