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16-02-05, 04:18 AM
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| | | Wtf Please somebody give me a clue! I just started dating this guy I have known for awhile and he tells me I care about you lot's and lot's but it is hard for me to say " I Love You' WTF does that mean. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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16-02-05, 04:20 AM
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| | | It means he doesn't love you. Plain and simple. He may like you a lot but its a new relationship. Give it time. No need to rush the I love you's just yet. People always do these days. It's so overused that it's almost lost its meaning completely.
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| | | well in a nutshell, either two things.
It means he hasn't quite developed the feelings of "I love you", and if this true then I applaud him for not using the words unless he means it. It takes time to have those feelings, so don't feel bad. He at least admit that he cares about you. (As Blackrose just explained.)
And then there is the possiability that hes not one of those guys that don't say, because he doesn't want attached, a possible "player", but you said you have know him...so I doubt this is the case.
So for now, I'm going to assume its option 1 that I talked about.
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16-02-05, 04:26 AM
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| | | so in other words he cares about me like he would care about his dog or something.. damn..I feel special | |
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| | I agree with the above two as well!
What's the rush? Relationships aren't races.... Relax and just enjoy each other company is what I would recommend, but of course be aware of the surroundings 
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16-02-05, 04:31 AM
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| | | No no lol, there are many different levels of caring and loving. You can still care about somebody without loving(do not misinterprut this) them. You have to understand you can't "love" somebody right out the shoot, you can harbor some great feelings towards them, but not quite love. Usually people in the beginning confuse love and obesssion, I dunno why..because they are quite different. But I'm guessing its cause they are just in the "moment".
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16-02-05, 05:03 AM
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| | | Of I agree with you Innova, but THIS time it was being in love for me. Someone came into my life when I least expected it.
My two cents on the situation, dont take it personally because he didnt say it back, be grateful he didnt in a sense. It may hurt, but you know he does have deep feelings for you. When you rush into saying those words to someone whose NOT ready, be prepared. It happened to me, the Great Wall of China went up in my relationship, he ran like a bat out of hell. Dont push the issue and let things happen naturally.
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16-02-05, 05:51 AM
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| | | I don't say it to people. I have a hard time even saying it to my parents. Just something some people aren't comfortable with. Opening yourself up like that isn't easy to some.
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Originally Posted by Laguna "I Love You." - Blackrose lol...  Have we learned nothing??? *pats his head*
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Please somebody give me a clue! I just started dating this guy I have known for awhile and he tells me I care about you lot's and lot's but it is hard for me to say " I Love You' WTF does that mean.
It means exactly what he said. It means that "I Love You" is hard for him to say because he just wants to be SURE he's in love before he says it. It's also fair warning that it may be a while before he can say something like that. I'm the same way. I've never said "I love you" to any girl I've been dating. I don't say it to my parents or family. So therefore, those words aren't thrown around a lot and therefore when I say it, I'm gonna REALLY ****ing mean it. I don't take those words lightly.
so in other words he cares about me like he would care about his dog or something.. damn..I feel special
Chill the hell out. Just cause he puts a LOT more emphasis and meaning on those words doesn't mean that he doesn't care for you. It just means he doesn't use those words lightly and it REALLY REALLY means something when he does.
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16-02-05, 09:29 AM
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| | | There's a difference between love and infatuation, and I'm not saying you two will never love eachother, I'm saying you probably don't yet.
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Originally Posted by chelsee so in other words he cares about me like he would care about his dog or something.. damn..I feel special Are you kidding? Some people would die for their dogs!
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| | He just wants some.......but he did put it in a nice way!! 
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18-02-05, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Zekk_T_Strife I don't say it to people. I have a hard time even saying it to my parents. Just something some people aren't comfortable with. Opening yourself up like that isn't easy to some. Exactly and maybe because hes a guy and he doesnt want to sound like a pussy....i know i had that problem for a while until i got over it call him a pussy and see what he does
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