is it just me? - Love Forum

mhussain · #1 (**permalink**) 23-02-05, 08:14 PM

hey mates
is it just me or is it really difficult getting over someone u really loved? i fell in love with a woman 3 years senior to me and i was really really in love with her and so was she. but due to some things, we cant be together. now i find it simply impossible to forget her. my uni is staring soon and it is going to be some problem. i just see her every where.

is it just me?

Hussain

p.s. a request mates. plz no jokes about her. i seriously still love her

james_b10 · #2 (**permalink**) 23-02-05, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by mhussain

hey mates
is it just me or is it really difficult getting over someone u really loved? i fell in love with a woman 3 years senior to me and i was really really in love with her and so was she. but due to some things, we cant be together. now i find it simply impossible to forget her. my uni is staring soon and it is going to be some problem. i just see her every where.

is it just me?

Hussain

p.s. a request mates. plz no jokes about her. i seriously still love her

not at all man - i had the same thing at uni during my first year - broke up at the start of second year and it was tough as - couldnt stop thinking about her.. im now bout to start my third year and everything is fine - still respect her and love her (but in a diffrent way) youll get that way too - it just takes time - thats the only answer to it... sorry but thats the way it is..

Laguna · #3 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 12:12 AM

Read my posts. I've been through it as well. You just have to move on and find someone else.

Fawn · #4 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 12:15 AM

It'll be a week today that my relationship ended. I still love him, but I find that each day gets easier.

Sometimes, you just have to let it go. There will always be a special place in your heart for her. You just got to figure out theres more to life and its time to concentrate on yourself for now.

Killerbabe · #5 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 12:23 AM

Sorry to hear that Fawn.

I don't want to be the devil's advocate but... it does feel after ten days, when you think you've got it under control. However, it gets worse in a month down the road. Or even later. In a little while you start thinking that you're finally over him, but that's when it hits you back in the head. Breaking up sucks.

Fawn · #6 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 12:54 AM

Thx Killerbabe!

Yes, breaking up sucks. This is why I never got into serious relationships (I always ended it at the 2 months mark. lol). Then this was my first serious relationship (went on for 11 mths) and it bit me in the ass. So dating and short term things sound pretty good at the moment.

bluesummer · #7 (**permalink**) 24-02-05, 04:55 AM

I broke up with my ex, a great guy, almost exactly 3 years ago, and there is STILL some hurt there....very very miniscule, but there. It never REALLY goes away completely. But it does fade slowly, so hang in there. Nobody ever feels good after a breakup, even if it's one they really wanted. You will recover over time though buddy, so no worries.