Why do people cheat?

[Fizzy]

As some of you know, I'm going through this with my boyfriend at the moment. I'd just be interested on comments about why some people cant resist the urge to cheat on thier supposed loved ones?

[sfalexi]

Could be a variety of reasons. From drunk and stupid to they never really loved you to begin with. I don't know the situation so I can't even BEGIN fathom what the reason could be in this case.

Give more info.

[Laguna]

Most people cheat because either:

A.) They on longer like the person they are with
B.) They aren't getting enough out of you.
C.) They like the thrill of secrecy

[indie68]

I know when I cheated on my bf it was not totally about him, part of it was my immaturity. But I had in fact lost respect for him, I still loved him but there wasn't a driving force to want to be with him anymore. And then there are some people who do it all the time, in which case they have their own problems i.e. insecurity about being able to keep their partner, lack of self respect, etc. But all-in-all, you deserve someone who isn't going to do that to you, and if you try to forgive him and move on in your relationship, it is going to be so hard to feel like you can trust him again. Is it worth it to you?

[Da man]

Feel like being with someone else who appreciates and cares about you when your SO doesnt give a damn about your feelings.

[mhussain]

i dont know why people cheat ,but i know that u shouldnt ever. it isnt wrth it. it is like saying to the other person that u were arways a trophy on my arm and u never were of any significance.

just have someone say that to u in a public place and u will realise what i am trying to say!!!
Hussain

[Nice Lover Boy]

They enjoy cheating because of the great sex appeal the other person has on them. Some cheat because of curiosity progress in bed. Other's just do it because they want to.

[misombra]

i totally agree with the last post. nlb's.

[Nice Lover Boy]

Quote:

Originally Posted by misombra

i totally agree with the last post. nlb's.

It's sad to say but, I've been with them cheaters and that is the response I got from them. I always ask them, "hey, why did you do this with me"? And one of the responses was what I wrote. Sorry, but true.

[DBallerz]

They cheat because they want a thrill and no longer have feelings for the partner or they are just bored. Its always fun to do something just because its not 'allowed'.