I dont blame you Amber. A strange guy trying to hug and cuddle on a first date would put me right off also. So would the 'love at first sight'. No such, just people trying to fulfill their self-made fantasies. Trust your gut on this one. You aren't distant, just cautious and there is nothing wrong with that.
Originally Posted by Amber2011
Not sure you need to throw the baby out w/the bathwater re: dating sites but you might want to take a break from them for a while and recentre.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh