| Before you said he was a shy guy, I was going to say that myself from what I read.
I say, be the strong one with the balls in the situation. I say bring what you two have been hiding in the dark into the open.
The awkwardness is starting now becuase your feelings are becoming much more intense and also because you don't know how he's feeling about you.
I think, because he is a shy guy (as you said), that you should find a time when you two are alone (in the car, in a field looking at stars, whatever) and tell him how you feel. What's the worse that is going to happen ? You are going to feel awkward after that ? --- You ALREADY feel awkward NOW. If anything, this will relieve the doubt in your mind and finally give you the answer.
He may say, yes, he does have feeling for you.
Or,
He may say, no, he doesn't.
Be prepared, and understand you are not the first one who is about to do this. It's been going on forever. And EVERYONE has gotten a yes, and atleast one "no."
Be brave, and follow your heart, AND understand the repercussions of your actions/plans.
Btw, when you tell him how you feel, don't tell him EVERYTHING at once. Bring it on slowly, like,
"over these last few months my feelings have become ...."
or question him a bit,
"how do you think we have become these last few months..."
Be creative. Find something that will truly express how YOU are feeling, but in a subtle way.
Your friend,
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Chaf
"I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see."
- John Burroughs
Last edited by shafkore : 04-07-03 at 05:30 PM.
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