help plz

[Reallyconfused]

I have been in this online relationship ship with this one really nice and sweet guy. He always seems to want nudes and sexual stories about me and him but when I say no he normally gets sad about it and then I start to feel bad about it. He basicly said I have been mean since the second month of him talking to me which was september of last year. I was basicly just wondering if any of you have an opinion on this. I really think he is just tryin to mess with me anymore but I don't know. I don't even say anything mean I act the same way I do with other people and I asked everyone and they are like your extremely nice it is only him who thinks I am mean. Do you think he is just tryin to get me to do what he wants? He knows I don't like being mean and I told him if I have been so mean why does he stay with me. I end up normally giving in on doing that stuff but now really I feel gross and disqusted with myself.

[julie]

Honey, of course he is saying these things to you in order to get his way. When you are online, you can be anyone you want to be, and you can act anyway you want to.

Have you physically met him? Im assuming you have not. And if not, you should not bring yourself to need "help" about someone who only wants to screw with your head in cyber space.

Find a real live physical man, and tell this man to keep his pornal thoughts in his own mind and internet surfing and to stop trying to manipulate you.

If he is "so sweet" he will do that and maybe man up and think real thoughts.

[peshkunta]

You mean man down...LOL.

[IceQueen]

Reallyconfused,

Never let anyone guilt trip you into doing anything you're not comfortable doing. Mean, schmean -- and what is he for not respecting your wishes?

I'd stop talking to him altogether: all the compromising in this relationship is only coming from YOU, he doesn't seem to be willing to compromise at all.