is there something special you share with her? something in common? like for example, my cousin that is an animal lover was finally going to a date with the girl that is his gf now, he knew she had a special love for mother nature also, so instead of a coffee house he took her to a natural reserve park where they had all types of animals..as a surprise..my cousin said he was sort of regretting his eccentric idea of taking her there -especially when he saw she came to the date dressed formally, wearing high heels and stuff- but after a while they had been walking there, this girl told him that was the best date ever..that she hadnt met anyone like him before

oh and btw he said she started to get relaxed there, she took off her shoes and she pulled her hair back with a pony tail, he thought she looked adorable
I say, if you want to have a special date, look for something you might have in common and take her to a related place..

I bet youll have fun