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21-03-05, 12:29 PM
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| | | advice please-financial-credit ok well here it is I just found out she has been living with a guy for the past couple months she signed a lease agreement and bought a TV on her credit and now she figures she likes me more or something? I suppose the lease is a year so now she says in a year all the things will be paid off and she can leave him......I love her so much I would wait but this is crazy I need help there has to be another way......
- I still love her but damn Im so hurt please help -- she could always kick the guy out?(shes going to pay half on this TV and then just give it to him)?
Please please help......
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22-03-05, 09:05 AM
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| | | You didn't know where she was living? Or that a guy was living with her?
How exactly does that slip one's mind? Sounds like a crazy situation. Ask her why she never told you, and what she's planning to do now.
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22-03-05, 09:26 AM
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22-03-05, 09:39 AM
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| | | OK now she tells me that she for sure wants to leave but she has to stay with the guy for 9 months(when lease expires?) because they are sharing the rent and
he is paying for a couple very expensive things that they purchased
on HER credit card:so if she leaves now she will be stuck with the bill and she doesn't want to mess up her CREDIT....
...love or money?......
ive been really patient to get this much information and this is a change before she did not want to leave at all....
yes she had been living with the guy for 3 months and I did not know...
and she was still seeing me until I caught her in a lie.....and figured out that
she was with this guy...then she did not want to be with me at all...
now she wants to it is just the bills.....credit...I guess the guy will pay
completley for the purchases but they half the apartment....
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22-03-05, 10:11 AM
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| | | GET OUT NOW!!!
Allow her to come to you. If she wants you, she will. If anything, FORCE her to break up with the roommate. If she won't, dump her.
It doesn't sound like a situation you want to be dragged into. This has "Small Claims Court" written all over it.
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22-03-05, 12:53 PM
| | | | She LIED, man, and for no good reason. What an AWESOME start to a relationship! If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you. BD's right: Get out now. | |
23-03-05, 08:16 PM
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| | | LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE right now
if u dont, tell me on which oage of which obituary should i see ur photo?
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24-03-05, 05:10 AM
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| | | just forget about her, move on, and if in 9 months she contacts you, reconsider, but be careful. like indigosoul said, if shell do it to him, shell do it to you | |
24-03-05, 09:25 AM
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| | | Dude all She wants is Your attention....and unfortunately YOU are giving it to her. Just walk away, split, avoid, cut off all ties.....She is not worth it, I don't care how great You think She is. You are a man, You deserve better than what she is willing to give...MOVE ON!
If she ever does come for You, I hope for Your sake You don't take her. I don't know a single soul that would let themselves be in a situation similar to hers and not want to be in it in some sort of way.
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| | | Your Best Advice: It is not a huge thing just move on and forget about her. Obviously she is only interested in herself otherwise she wouldn't be doing what shes doing. | |
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| | thanx alot people.... easier said than done..  although its been a while and im really starting to forget  | |
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| | | ok now i just dont know | |
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Originally Posted by bohemiandonut GET OUT NOW!!! That right there above is all you need as advice.
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