Alright LF, need help with this girl...

[C1d6OC]

we had a casual outting Saturday night with some friends and it was great! Had a great time. I do kind of have some feelings for this girl, and according to our talks, she does too. However, we don't own each other and that's fair enough on both sides.

I am really good friends with this girl and we pretty much tell each other everything and anything, however tonight, we were talking away and she tells me that other guys have asked her out casually and she just wants to see how it goes. I totally appreciate her honesty and I was honest with her. I told her that I was fine with it, although it was a bit sucky, considering I have developed some feelings.

Anyways, I don't need help with how to feel, because honestly that can't be helped. What I do need help with is this. It's been 2 months since my ex broke up and I feel that I may end up liking this girl more, however, I also feel that maybe I haven't had enough healing time to just try and sweep her off her feet yet. So I'm just curious as to whether I should just back away from this and see how it goes or as some would say go for the kill and try to be the one she likes most.

I'm definitely leaning more toward the lay back scenario, because I value our friendship a lot at the same time as liking her so it's a bit tough. Anyways some thoughts would be great.

Oh and don't take this post as though I'm falling for her, just because I'm a bit upset. I just happen to be attracted to her and it kind of took me bit by surprise. Anyway, thanks in advance.

Cdoc

[misombra]

let her do her thing. what else can you really do?

[misombra]

btw the quote in your sig is mind expanding.

[Only-virgins]

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Originally Posted by misombra

btw the quote in your sig is mind expanding.

That is because it makes no sense.

[misombra]

oh ov, but it does...

[misombra]

but what it should've said is that without music, life would not exist.

[OpticalIllusion]

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Originally Posted by misombra

let her do her thing. what else can you really do?

Yeah... she's going to anyways, from what I hear. Really you've got two options, let her do what she wants, and you might have a shot. Or get all jealous and weird, and scare her away.

[Only-virgins]

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Originally Posted by misombra

but what it should've said is that without music, life would not exist.

That makes no sense as well. If we never cared for combining rhythm melodies then music would never exist. Animals other then humans are considered life and they do not know the difference between just sound and rhythm. Music is just sound coordinated to make a rhythm. I do not have a clue why humans are the only ones to find rhythm appealing.

[misombra]

what you just said made no sense.

[Only-virgins]

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Originally Posted by misombra

what you just said made no sense.

Wow...your not to bright then are you? What is music? tell me?

[OpticalIllusion]

*sigh* let's end this. Music is nice. Life could exist without it, but it would be less than it is now.

[misombra]

music is all around us. every noise we hear and beyond is music. the cycles of the earth is music. the cycle of the moons around the planets is music. the cycle of the planets around the sun is music. and on and on. everything is music.

[Only-virgins]

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Originally Posted by misombra

music is all around us. every noise we hear and beyond is music. the cycles of the earth is music. the cycle of the moons around the planets is music. the cycle of the planets around the sun is music. and on and on. everything is music.

no, Sound is sound , music is sound with rhythm.

mu·sic ( P ) Pronunciation Key (myzk)
n.
The art of arranging sounds in time so as to produce a continuous, unified, and evocative composition, as through melody, harmony, rhythm, and timbre



I have never seen anyone die because they are deaf.

[misombra]

what? you don't know what you're talking about. there is no sound without rhythm.

[Only-virgins]

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Originally Posted by OpticalIllusion

*sigh* let's end this. Music is nice. Life could exist without it, but it would be less than it is now.

Exactly. It would be less fun thats for sure.