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07-03-05, 08:42 PM
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| | | Things that we shall not do at the beginning of a relationship I need help with this... what shall i not do? and should i do?
I'm 16 yr boy from portugal. I like her and she likes me back but we still don't know much of each other... what shall i do...? a really don't know how to act, what to do, to say...  help please! | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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08-03-05, 01:36 AM
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| | | Are you dating the girl yet or are you looking to start dating her in the near future?
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08-03-05, 06:18 AM
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| | | i'm looking to date her in the future... | |
08-03-05, 06:51 AM
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| | | Sneak up behind yer woman, give 'er a nice solid whap on 'er behind, and then ask her to marry you.
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| | | LOL, which states do 'we' do that in, again?
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08-03-05, 07:05 AM
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| | | but i'm not in the states (gladly, no ofense)... so i want to know smart opinions... | |
08-03-05, 07:11 AM
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| | Let's see..
Should not do: - Act like something you're not to try and impress her
- Come on too strongly if you're not completely sure she's into you
And um.. yeah. I'm sure there's other stuff, but I can't think of anything else right now.. 
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08-03-05, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted by DeadbyNature but i'm not in the states (gladly, no ofense)... so i want to know smart opinions... ::Thinks...Shakes head...::
Nope, not worthy.
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08-03-05, 09:49 PM
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| | | ... where did you learn that? "paz puto"... Spanish classes? it's the same in portuguese... this ain't enough. I need more... | |
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Originally Posted by DeadbyNature what shall i do...? a really don't know how to act, what to do, to say... help please! First of all, don't take all of what they said seriously. They just do it for shock value xD
Anyway, don't worry about it! There is no set way to act, talk, etc... if there were, that would be really lame, boring, and freaky. Relationships and love would become mechanical.
Just go with the flow. Do what you feel is right in your heart. You gotta go with your instincts, and trust them.
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08-03-05, 10:28 PM
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| | | yeah that's cool but I start thinking: "what shall i say?", "what to do next?", etc... and because of that i start fearing my moves... and that is not cool... is it normal to fear my moves?
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08-03-05, 10:52 PM
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| | | I think it's natural. It's a self-defense mechanism... I think it's a mode of fear of rejection. It's just your conscience telling you to be careful.
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08-03-05, 11:44 PM
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| | | yeah... but i guess that I want to achieve perfection when that is never possible... no one is perfect but i still want to be to her and that's what creates the fear... The fear of doing something wrong and stop being perfect....
PS- good question (in your signature), i kind of have the same doubt....
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09-03-05, 01:33 AM
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| | | "When in doubt, up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, start."
frasbee,can u please tell what this is about,lol | | Loveforum Breaktime | | | | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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