He's really shy - Love Forum

x_my_heart · #1 (**permalink**) 29-03-05, 12:32 PM

so i like this guy...i've moved on from the last one because things didnt work =(
anyways he's really shy...its kinda beyond shy he barely talks but i know he wants to...its just neither of us know what to talk about
can someone help me?
i wanna start conversations with him but im really bad at it

Nativeguy · #2 (**permalink**) 29-03-05, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by x_my_heart

so i like this guy...i've moved on from the last one because things didnt work =(
anyways he's really shy...its kinda beyond shy he barely talks but i know he wants to...its just neither of us know what to talk about
can someone help me?
i wanna start conversations with him but im really bad at it

Hey, I'm new here. Anyways I too am a pretty shy guy and often have trouble with starting conversations. It seems its ALWAYS worse for the guy to be the shy one cause it seems like its supposed to be the guy who starts the conversation. Anyways my answer is always MOVIES. Everyone watches movies. I just blurt out how I just saw this or that movie and how I thought it was so GerrrATE! or how it sucked ass. Ask what they thought. It sounds stupid but it always seems to work.
Do you share classes, clubs, interests, or anything? I don't know if I'm much help but just thought I would put my two cents in. Best wishes

yoshikuni · #3 (**permalink**) 29-03-05, 01:27 PM

Just do what comes natural...if you can't trust your brain, trust your instincts. Once the ice is broken, it'll all come out I'm sure.

x_my_heart · #4 (**permalink**) 30-03-05, 10:38 AM

i think he gets bored with me talking about movies...i tried it and he didnt seem to into it...unless he's just not into me but thats a whole other story

i've tried breaking the ice but nothing works...and everyone tells me he rarely talks...when we talk online/phone he talks a lot and what he says makes me melt hehe...but i dunno how to get to him in person

Ratfish256 · #5 (**permalink**) 30-03-05, 11:50 AM

Skip the talking and just plant a big kiss on him. That should wake him up haha.
Seriously he is probably scared of you.

Frasbee · #6 (**permalink**) 30-03-05, 12:05 PM

Poke fun at him, tease him, rub your tits in his face or somethin'.

If he doesn't respond in any positive way, he's either ball-less or gay.

bohemiandonut · #7 (**permalink**) 30-03-05, 12:25 PM

Touch his arm and say his name out loud. That's what girls are supposed to do when they like a guy, or so I've been told.

Or do what I do... nothing! Seems to work, though rather s l o w l y . . .