hey.. new here.. small problem - Love Forum

gunit17 · #1 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 10:53 AM

whats up im new here, im a 16 year old soon to be 17.. in grade 11.. anways it seems i have a problem.. theres a girl i like.. shes in my league and everything.. i think i have a pretty good chance with her.. i havent talked to her or anything but weve made eye contact a few times.. im crazy about this girl.. anways it seems i cant find the courage to go up and talk to her.. today for example.. i had a perfect time to do it.. i got all nevrous and didnt do it.. any pointers on how to get courage to do something like that.. and what should i say?

OpticalIllusion · #2 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 10:59 AM

you have to change your thought process. Don't worry about whether or not she will like you... change your thoughts into, "I wonder if I will like her"

That used to work wonders for me when I was nervous approaching girls. I also used to focus on the girls worst feature, that way it would be like approaching a girl who I didn't find attractive.

bohemiandonut · #3 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by OpticalIllusion

you have to change your thought process. Don't worry about whether or not she will like you... change your thoughts into, "I wonder if I will like her"

That used to work wonders for me when I was nervous approaching girls. I also used to focus on the girls worst feature, that way it would be like approaching a girl who I didn't find attractive.

Very good advice.

I never thought about it like that.

OpticalIllusion · #4 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bohemiandonut

Very good advice.

I never thought about it like that.

thank you for your kind words

Illusional · #5 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 11:51 AM

*brings out the sarcasm stick*

who shall i beat first with this device??

raverboy

bohemiandonut · #6 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Illusional

*brings out the sarcasm stick*

who shall i beat first with this device??

raverboy

Actually, I'm pretty sure you would be the aggressor in this case, rave-o.

R, A, V - E - O, R, A, V - E - O, R, A, V - E - O, and rave-o was his name-o!

Ahahaha! Okay, now you can strike back.

Illusional · #7 (**permalink**) 08-04-05, 02:35 PM

speaking of raverboy.. what happened to my clone?? i haven't seen him online for a while.

raverboy