So confused - Love Forum

sweet thing · #1 (**permalink**) 09-04-05, 08:20 AM

Alright, I have quite a problem on my hands now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10-11 months now and we really have such a great relationship. We were planning on moving in together in about another 3 months here but we have a big problem. Since he is in the Airforce we would not be able to live together unless we were married and if we didn't marry then we would prolly have to split up. I mean we were planning on it later in life but im so confused. What do you guys think I should do???

EmotionSickness · #2 (**permalink**) 09-04-05, 12:15 PM

Definitely not rush and marry that would probably be the worst thing to do. So theres like no way if you didn't marry?

bohemiandonut · #3 (**permalink**) 09-04-05, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by sweet thing

Alright, I have quite a problem on my hands now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10-11 months now and we really have such a great relationship. We were planning on moving in together in about another 3 months here but we have a big problem. Since he is in the Airforce we would not be able to live together unless we were married and if we didn't marry then we would prolly have to split up. I mean we were planning on it later in life but im so confused. What do you guys think I should do???

What the hell is this? Do you live in Saudi Arabia or something?

sweet thing · #4 (**permalink**) 09-04-05, 09:18 PM

No I don't live in Saudi Arabia. He is in the Airforce and the government says that when he is in active duty he can't have me live with him unless we are married. I can't think of anything elsle that I could do because with him being a few hundred miles aways I could only see him a few days out of the year.

bohemiandonut · #5 (**permalink**) 10-04-05, 04:22 AM

That's heavy.

I would sue the Air Force.

But that's just me.

bluesummer · #6 (**permalink**) 10-04-05, 11:32 AM

If you can't live WITH him but don't want to be with him, why don't you consider moving closer to where he's going to be, by yourself? Unless its financially impossible of course, but I really think thats your only option unless you can get used to seeing him only a few times a year.