god, i'm an idiot - Love Forum

jutty · #1 (**permalink**) 04-10-01, 10:52 PM

how do i tell her i like her. more than a friend. how should i bring up the topic and then tell her? any suggestions???? please, any help would be appreciated.

jenny · #2 (**permalink**) 04-10-01, 10:54 PM

I don't understand why is it so hard 4 guys to tell a girl they like them...aaayyyy....well look yeah i guess u can say it's not that easy 4 u guys...but u have to do it sooner of later....I think u should just tell her...Tell her.."U know what? I have found the most beautiful girl, and i like her very much, and then she'll probably say, hopefully, "who is it?" and then u say "u"...and then u just go on and tell her what she means to u rite now and stuff i mean that might work.....i think it's sweet 2...I hope u're a sweet guy....Don't worry it's not that hard...Just be calm...everything will be ok...I wish u the best ok? GOOD LUCK ...Hope i Helped!

joseph · #3 (**permalink**) 04-10-01, 10:56 PM

Its hard because a girl can get stressed when put on the spot like that, especially if she had no interest in the guy as more than a friend. then she ends up rejecting him, leaving him weary to try again.

Illusional · #4 (**permalink**) 05-10-01, 04:14 PM

jenny, i have to admit, that is a pretty good way of striking up a converstaion. damn i never thought of it. i might use it next time. as for the topic at hand, you might want to start dating her and hinting that you like her, and if she returns the signals, it's a done deal. raverboy

mr fark · #5 (**permalink**) 06-10-01, 02:31 PM

Well, bottom line is don't quote from some famous novel, or don't give her a lengthy speech

just tell her she looks pretty cute, and ask if she's attached

reenactment:

you know what?

what?

you look pretty cute...
*smiles*

hehee, thank you.

you attached?

no..

could i date you?

=)

hope that helps

Hurl3y · #6 (**permalink**) 25-10-01, 01:50 PM

Just tell her. You don't have to be romeo, or some poet. And if she says let be friends... then thats what it is. Don't push it more, because then it will become awkward.

MVPlaya · #7 (**permalink**) 14-02-04, 08:00 AM

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Originally posted by jutty
how do i tell her i like her. more than a friend. how should i bring up the topic and then tell her? any suggestions???? please, any help would be appreciated.

Don't tell her. Ask her out. And be confident!