"you turn me on so much!" - Love Forum

Fizzy · #1 (**permalink**) 13-04-05, 04:38 PM

OK, I could do with this question being answered from both guys and girls....

I've started seeing this guy, who I have liked for a long time. When we are together it's just amazing. We kiss and cuddle, and have sat and talked about our famlies, and up-bringing, and I feel we have really conected. I know that I'm falling in love with him

The other day, we were together, and I looked at him and said
"wow!, what do you do to me",
he laughed and said
"I don't know what do I do?"...then said
"whatever it is..I think you do it to me too"

I was on cloud nine!
Then we carried on kissing, and he said
"you turn me on so much"

I didn't know how to take that. Does that mean as far as he's concerned, it's just a lust thing? We slept together last year, but have not done it since we have been properly seeing each other for the last two weeks...and he has not pushed to do it at all.

Don't get me wrong... he REALLY turns me on too, I would just like to know:

Girls...If a guy said that to you (who you were really falling for), would you find it flattering, or would you think of yourself as a sex object?

Guys... Would you say that to a girl, who you are falling for, and not mean you just want her for sex?

My friends think, if he just wanted sex, then we would have done it by now.
I just like him so much....

Am I reading too much into this?

poisoncell · #2 (**permalink**) 13-04-05, 05:11 PM

I think that if he just wanted to have sex with you, u 2 would have already do it already. till now he haven push it yet.. hmm.. shd be ok... he shd be ok...

skybeam · #3 (**permalink**) 13-04-05, 09:58 PM

guys arent all pigs. sometimes theyre just more reserved and dont want to be in that vulnerable position.

Fizzy · #4 (**permalink**) 13-04-05, 10:13 PM

Does that mean I shouldn't read so much into it?

Ratfish256 · #5 (**permalink**) 14-04-05, 12:57 AM

Yeah he is probably thinking what an ass he made of himself. Just be proud that you do.

longtime · #6 (**permalink**) 14-04-05, 01:31 AM

I think you're reading too much into it. He's comfortable enough with you to say that, and I think thats a good thing.

mhussain · #7 (**permalink**) 14-04-05, 07:52 AM

he likes u and yes guys say that...when they like somebody...and no sex isnt the onloy thing that turns men on ok let me rephrase...sex isnt the only thing that turns decent guys on it does a lot but it aint the only thing

Hussain

bohemiandonut · #8 (**permalink**) 14-04-05, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by mhussain

he likes u and yes guys say that...when they like somebody...and no sex isnt the onloy thing that turns men on ok let me rephrase...sex isnt the only thing that turns decent guys on it does a lot but it aint the only thing
Hussain

Huh? I think it's the thought of having sex that turns guys on. And yes, that's the only thing.

Being "turned on" is just being physiologically ready to have sex. That would be the definition of the term.

Duh. (Idiot.)

Illusional · #9 (**permalink**) 14-04-05, 09:30 AM

that's my favorite line to use when i'm drunk. basically because with the beer googles, almost anyone can look attractive.

raverboy

LightOn · #10 (**permalink**) 17-04-05, 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Fizzy

Don't get me wrong... he REALLY turns me on too

I'm not getting you wrong but I think you are getting yourself wrong. If he really turns you on too does that make him a sex object to you? Think about it.