Hi all, newbie nees help BAD....

[misombra]

geez people if it's too long for you then go to another thread that is short enough to keep your attention!

[Prodigal]

Agreed, misombra. And after getting a bit heated in that other thread, shh!... I find the comment you made here quite offensive. It's a shame; Never4got is going through an incredibly serious situation... that couldn't be questioned for its authenticity.

Never4got, I am honestly really surprised. Most people wouldn't have done what you did... it's very commendable. But the road ahead... it's going to be incredibly hard. Instead of staying on the easier road, you chose to take the harder one... and I think you also took it well knowing the immediate consequences that arise from it. Remember that although the road may look very bleak sometimes, you have a shot at the true light at the end. You most definitely have my complete and unbridled support.

Ya, what miso & Prodigal said. You got balls boyo!

Oh, don't forget to invite us all to your Wedding/Commitment ceremony, whatever, to Judi when this all works out! And it will. Think 30 years down the road. Yes, I'm being deliberately flip, but its important to keep your sense of humor in all this... we've all been soooo serious about this... remember the whole REASON you are doing this is that life is short, and is to be savoured... be happy!!