Hey all
I've had a couple of long posts here so I'll try to keep this one short. (Doesn't look like I succeded though, but I hope you'll take the time to read it anyway...)
Here's my problem including a (very) short resume of my previous posts: I fell in love with an older colleague (she's 29, I'm 22), found out she had a boyfriend (another collegue and friend of mine actually) but no one knew about them, then they stopped seeing each other and her and I were seeing each other more and more as good friends. We ended up sleeping together which was very awkward the next day, but we talked about it and agreed that we were only friends.
We've since been seing each other regularly, and talking and texting each other over the phone practically everyday. I've also met her son and we get along fine. We've also been at a lot of parties together, and because of practical reasons I always sleep over at her place.
A couple of times we've ended up having sex again, but the last time she suddenly said that she actually didn't wanted to. Ofcourse I stopped and asker her why. She said it was because we had agreed upon just being friends
I told her that I'd like to be more than friends, but she didn't answer and we fell asleep cuddled up together... Since then we've been making out when comming home from parties but havent had sex as I don't want to push her.
Last week we had a couple of beers after work at another colleagues place and I found out that they actually see us as a couple: There was a joke about people from her family usually going for "younger meat", and it was obvious that they were referring to her and I. Neither of us sad anything to object, but just laughed at the joke.
Then this weekend she and some other colleagues we're at a party at a friend of theirs to which I wasn't invited. They had no way of getting home and it was about 30miles, so I told them that they could just call me and I'd drive them.
When I arrived to pick them up I was invited inside and had a beer. She had become very drunk and people where making a bit fun of her, but all in good meaning. I sat down and talked to a couple of other colleagues who I hadn't talked to for a while because I changed departments. They said that she had been that drunk almost the whole evening, and had been talking about me the whole time... They also said she lit up like a child at christmas when I entered the room
When we was getting into the car, one of our collegues also told her that she should hang onto me because I was so patient with her even though she was this drunk...
She fell asleep pretty quick on our way home though, so nothing happened that night. I still slept over at her place, though and I cuddled her a bit the next day, but she had quite a hangover so that's about it...
How should I interpret her different signs? I can't figure it out anymore...
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