Does she like me or not? - Love Forum

falcon21 · #1 (**permalink**) 09-05-05, 10:16 AM

So there is a girl at my school and we were really good friends and all and i really liked her and cant stop thinking about her..
we called each other all the time but last week she stopped picking up my calls or calling me so i next time i see her i asked her wat was up.. and she goes I was busy..

i got upset by that and started ignoring her.. so she comes up to me asks me Why i am ignoring her..I tell her i am not and she goes Ok and walks away..

Now i dunno why but every time we see each other we ignore each other.... but i dunno why i do it since i still have feelings for her..

So my question is should i call her or wait for her to call?
another reason i dont call her is because she might not pick my calls up and i will look like i am really desperate..

Chii 288 · #2 (**permalink**) 09-05-05, 02:36 PM

Call her. You'd do that anyway. I was wondering a lot of times whether it's good to call the person in situations like these (Because again, I didn't want to sound desperate or some kind of obsessed freak, lol) or just wait for his call, but I've always ended up calling and it turned out to be the BEST choice. Ask her firmly what's going on, clear the situation, why wait? She may be scared of calling you as well.

falcon21 · #3 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Chii 288

Call her. You'd do that anyway. I was wondering a lot of times whether it's good to call the person in situations like these (Because again, I didn't want to sound desperate or some kind of obsessed freak, lol) or just wait for his call, but I've always ended up calling and it turned out to be the BEST choice. Ask her firmly what's going on, clear the situation, why wait? She may be scared of calling you as well.

I call her but she doesnt pick up my calls anymore.. but i asked her friends they said that she still talks about me.. so i think there is still hope..

but i cant figure out how exactly to ask her cause one part of me tells me to go talk to her and the other part tells me to wait for her to talk to me? i dunno very confused and depressed..

anyother ideas?

98King · #4 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 09:03 PM

Delete her number from your mobile phone or any other records, so when you feel the need to call her, you can't because you don't have the number because you are not supposed to be speaking to her. When you meet anywhere DO NOT smile or look upset if your eyes meet, as they will, look her in the eyes for a second and then look away. this is good because she won't know what you are thinking

Make sure you know where she is at all times if at school because if you loose track of her she will come from behind and when you turn around you will be surprised and then happy because these are your true emotions. Don't speak to her friends anymore as this maintains a connection between the two of you. Try to be around as much as possible but don't speak to her at all costs unless she approaches you first. Let her speak first and when she does don't interrupt her listen to what she is saying instead of thinking of a reply.

Follow this and it will work 100%. As long as you don't break the rules.
tell us how it goes.P.S It can take from 48 - 1week and 2days so be patient.

Chii 288 · #5 (**permalink**) 11-05-05, 10:15 PM

Yeah, be patient, don't hurry.
She seems offended, if you ask me.

cu_tigers90 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-05-05, 05:31 AM

Yeah, don't pay her no attention, I learned that lesson. I turned a girl off because I liked her too much. She liked me, but when she figured out I liked her, she got over me.

Act like you don't like her. Make her come to you.

falcon21 · #7 (**permalink**) 23-05-05, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cu_tigers90

Yeah, don't pay her no attention, I learned that lesson. I turned a girl off because I liked her too much. She liked me, but when she figured out I liked her, she got over me.

Act like you don't like her. Make her come to you.

aight so the ignoring thing worked.. she started talking to me

again..

now the new thing is How should i ask her out?!

we barely hang out but talk over the phone a lot..

so should i just tell her that i like her over the phone??

any advice?

cu_tigers90 · #8 (**permalink**) 24-05-05, 04:23 AM

Don't tell her you like her. Ask her to a movie or something, then go from there. Never actually say "I like you." Send her signals. She'll figure it out. It's alot more fun for them that way than a guy just coming out and saying it. It builds up anticipation and it causes her to wonder "Does he like me or not?"

Play a few games with her, and take things from there. While you're doing that, become better friends with her, but also don't forget to flirt with her.

falcon21 · #9 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 03:51 AM

actually i've been friends with her for like 2 years now..

i dunno how to start the "me liking her conversation"

cu_tigers90 · #10 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 03:59 AM

Then flirt with her. Make sure she knows you like her as more than a friend without actually telling her. Don't be TOO obvious though. You want to make them wonder "Hmm, does he like me?"

If she likes you, she'll send signals too. Ask her to a movie, and maybe, if you think the time is right, put a few moves on her. Then, things will start developing from there. It's a slow process, but it's the best way to have a long, successful relationship.