Bad Boys - Love Forum

Sami09 · #1 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 12:20 PM

Hello All . Call me Sami i am from canada. I just want people advice on this subject. I dated my man for over 2 yrs i am just wondering if any girls have every been in the situation that i am in. My man goes to strip clubs sometimes and get lap dances. I doesnt make me feel the greatest he know that but he says in a guy thing and he goes and get a beer. He also wants to go to a massage place not just an average one. but a nude one i honest have never hear of one till he talked about it and of course after the massage he can get a hand job. I love him totally i just dont know sometimes with his bad boy ways. Advice would be helpful i do know he loves me and is committed.

Only-virgins · #2 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 03:01 PM

Hand job from who? The massage place? ....I doubt it.

ALovelyLady86 · #3 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 10:39 PM

Massage parlors do offer hand jobs for the right price. There is one near my house that does.
Hunny, this guy might call this his reputation. But whatever you want to call it hes playing you. He doesnt love you or he wouldnt want anything to do with any other girl. I just got done posting on another thread about me and my ex.... He is my ex right now but refuses to date anyone else because he still wants to be with me. He isnt a pitiful guy, hes a Firefigher, very smart... but even today he wont date anyone else... not even the hot nurses at the hospital!
Hunny you need to leave this guy. He doesnt care for you or he would care for your feelings... as they are a part of you! You need to be with someone who puts you first, not themselves.

Chlorine · #4 (**permalink**) 25-05-05, 11:20 PM

Sami09-----He sounds horrible. If he's told you that much, think of what else he HASN'T TOLD YOU????

Sami09 · #5 (**permalink**) 26-05-05, 02:58 AM

Thanks you for the advice. He isnt horrible i just wanted your guys to comment he said he wanted to go to an escort place its look like if he goes to a massage place that would be enough. I know he loves me its just his bad boy ways

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Originally Posted by Chlorine

Sami09-----He sounds horrible. If he's told you that much, think of what else he HASN'T TOLD YOU????

shh! · #6 (**permalink**) 26-05-05, 03:09 AM

If you really ARE buying this crap and wish to make excuses for him, you deserve each other, so you are no longer allowed to play the martyr and indulge in pity parties.

Only-virgins · #7 (**permalink**) 26-05-05, 03:20 AM

Hes not a bad boy. There is no such thing. Just a dumbass.