Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? - Love Forum

#1 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 03:35 AM

What do you think about that quote? Do you think it's true?

blue · #2 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 03:39 AM

yep yep i do feel that if someone has cheated on you they will do it again and again.

COAD · #3 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 04:15 AM

Im gonna have to disagree on this one.....

If you really love a person, you wont cheat on them.

shh! · #4 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 04:40 AM

Often true, but of course there are exceptions.

JMark · #5 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 04:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by COAD

Im gonna have to disagree on this one.....

If you really love a person, you wont cheat on them.

Afraid I'll have to disagree with you here.

It's not mow much the person loves you that is going to make the person change his or her opinion. Those kind of things can come and pass. It's his or her belief that matters. If he doesn't see anything wrog with cheating on someone, you have no garantee that he wouldn't do it again. On the other hand, if the person has a change of opinion and decides that cheating isn't the way to go, then he's much less likely to cheat if at all.

So as others have said, it really depends on the person.

moeburn · #6 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 04:56 AM

I wouldn't trust anyone that hasn't cheated on someone before. Only once they've screwed up, will they know if its right or wrong.

The real question you have to ask is what lesson did they learn when they cheated.

Iminlove · #7 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 05:32 AM

I think that if they have cheated before it doesn't mean they will do it again and maybe the reason they did it was because they didn't like the guy anymore but they didn't want to hurt his feelings by breaking up with him and if a girl truly loves someone I believe they would not cheat on there boyfriend.

mhussain · #8 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 08:14 AM

doesnt matter a dime whether they will they cheat again or not ... how can u possibly trust them again?

Hussain

COAD · #9 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mhussain

doesnt matter a dime whether they will they cheat again or not ... how can u possibly trust them again?

Why not trust em? We all make our mistakes.....

mhussain · #10 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 08:52 AM

see when u make a mistake like forget to call them , or forget their b'day that doesnt invole the persons character ...

when he starts cheating on you that is basically saying ," k dude ... i dont care about u "

see no matter how much u love them, in the back of our head the thought plays , what will she/he do if a similar situation araises in future?

Hussain

Iminlove · #11 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 08:57 AM

It shouldn't matter cause you love them and if you truly love them you will get over it and still love them. The thought in your head will slowly go away and they will have to earn there trust back. I would forgive my girlfriend cause I love her so much but I don't have to worry about that because we both love each other and we will not cheat on one another.

#12 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 09:26 AM

damn i didn't expect this many posts so fast rofl. no, but the thing is regarding people that have cheating on OTHER partners in the past, and if you'd expect them to cheat on you simply because they've cheated before on somebody else.

does this clarify? btw i disagree

Fawn · #13 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 09:32 AM

If the person loved you from the beginning they would have never cheated on you in the first place. I agree with the quote.

COAD · #14 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 09:39 AM

Hold on.......
Couldnt the person fall inlove with you later?

#15 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 11:27 AM

yeah no shit. rofl. maybe they would several months/years after they're cheated on you.

it's possible to cheat on a girl you're in love with, foolish to think otherwise.

here's a situation: a girl that a guy is in love with isn't sexually satisfying to him, so he decides to call another girl up for a one night stand to let out his release, to go back to his girl.

accurate enough?