What does this mean? - Love Forum

gtracer4 · #1 (**permalink**) 01-06-05, 03:30 PM

I'm trying to figure out if she likes me, if she just has a crush on me, or what? I'm 18 and she's 16.

Well, I'll start off with how we met. I was helping a friend buy a computer and he knows her so they talk for a bit. We walk around looking at the computers for a while and my best friend called my cell. I picked it up and told him I would call him back. She knew him too from high school, and she wanted to talk to him, so I let her. Then all of a sudden she walks off with my phone, but I was busy talking to the sales guy about this computer so I just let her go. Apperently she told him that she thought I was cute and was asking him whether or not I was single, got my phone number, my AIM, and just asked him general stuff about me. And as we are about to leave, she says she wants to see my car and starts to hold my hand. At that time I didn't know what she talked to my best friend about on the cell so I just went along with it. She was cute but I didn't think much of it since I was busy making sure my friend got everything he needed for his computer.

After I get home I called my best friend and he told me what this girl was talking to him about and I realize that she's probably interested in me. Then later that night she called me and we just started talking. And she's been calling me just about every night since she first got my number a couple weeks ago and we would talk for around an hour every night (I've only called her once or twice). I like talking to her and she keeps saying she wants to go do something like see a movie with me but she can't decide on when to go. When I tried to pick a time she just said maybe, if I'm not busy.

So what do you guys make of this situation?
Note that I wrote this at 3am in the morning and some parts of it may not make any sense, and if it doesn't I'll try to clarify it.

mhussain · #2 (**permalink**) 01-06-05, 07:09 PM

dude .. call her up ... and tell her .. that this movie sounds great and in a simple plain voice tell her that u would like to see it with her ...

someties girls like to hold back in order to see whether a guy likes them or not ...

go for it mate

and best of luck

Hussain

Tone · #3 (**permalink**) 01-06-05, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by gtracer4

Apperently she told him that she thought I was cute and was asking him whether or not I was single, got my phone number, my AIM, and just asked him general stuff about me. And as we are about to leave, she says she wants to see my car and starts to hold my hand.

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Originally Posted by gtracer4

I'm trying to figure out if she likes me, if she just has a crush on me, or what?

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Originally Posted by gtracer4

And she's been calling me just about every night since she first got my number a couple weeks ago and we would talk for around an hour every night (I've only called her once or twice). I like talking to her and she keeps saying she wants to go do something like see a movie with me but she can't decide on when to go.

Come on now... do you really need to ask? She's clearly giving you the green light, go for it - you won't find a lot of girls this forward, take advantage

COAD · #4 (**permalink**) 01-06-05, 11:41 PM

Yeah man, this girl must REALLY like you or something, because girls ussually dont make these kind of moves on guys this fast.....

gtracer4 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-06-05, 01:26 AM

What I'm sort of confuesd about is that last part. When I tried to set a definite time to see a movie after she mentioned it, she was sort of hesitant, kind of like she wanted to go, but she was scared or something, as she said maybe, I don't know (sort of in a flirtish way). She is busy with school related stuff so maybe it's just that she doesn't know when she will have some free time. But I just wanted to know what you guys thought.

mhussain · #6 (**permalink**) 02-06-05, 12:49 PM

have a go mate and best of luck ...

the saddest words in life are " what if"

Hussain

Tone · #7 (**permalink**) 02-06-05, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by mhussain

the saddest words in life are " what if"

True true.

Prodigal · #8 (**permalink**) 02-06-05, 10:38 PM

Gt, the movie thing is no problem. And it may even be better if she says she's busy, because then she still finds time to call you when she's busy! And she's the one who calls you... I wouldn't worry about that... it seems like it's time to maybe try to plan a certain date when you can meet or do something, you know?

mhussain, I agree... those are sad words. They usually lead to regret. However, the words "I wish you were here" hurt pretty bad, too.

mhussain · #9 (**permalink**) 03-06-05, 08:18 AM

"i wish u were here " hurt more when u cant say them to the person u want to say it to

Hussain

adam4564 · #10 (**permalink**) 08-06-05, 08:57 PM

I agree with mhussian. If you dont go for it, i wont you to smack you're head against the desk until you realise the mistake you made (or you pass out, HA HA HA HA)

You got nothing to loose (be careful tho, she sounds like she might be a bit slutty and could cheat on you)