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Old 18-07-05, 02:23 AM
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Hi!!

So i've ended my 4 year relationship, got over it, moved on.

There's this new girl i like! I'm really excited about it all, she likes me too everything's great... except...

I feel so childish for saying it, but i'm really freaked out by thinking of all the guys she's been with. I mean, she's no slut it's only a handful of guys, it's just that at least 2 of them are on the same local music scene as me, like i actually know these people - just casually not as best friends or anything.

So i dunno, i really like her but i feel really put off when i imagine her and these other guys?

I've been with other partners too, but still i somehow don't expect her to feel this way about me, so why does it weird me out so much? I am a total hypocrite. Do i have some kind of bizarre purity obsession... everybody's been somewhere before, right?

any opinions appreciated!!!

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Old 18-07-05, 02:31 AM
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if you don't like it then don't go out with her. if you think you can get over it then do go out with her. she can't change her past.
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Old 18-07-05, 03:08 AM
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Is there something about her past relationships which makes you feel like she's "used goods," as if she's property?
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Old 18-07-05, 03:15 AM
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If you like her and she likes you, I see no reason why you two can't be together. Don't worry about how many guys she's slept with. Unless you are looking for marriage, chances are this relationship won't last anyway. View this as the perfect opportunity for lots of sex. At least you won't have to wait until she is ready. If she's had multiple partners, then she's probably picked up a few "tricks" along the way. Now if she sucks in bed, then get rid of her. Any girl who's f*cked several guys and didn't learn anything is a waste.
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I love your posts, NeoSeminole. They're always so shallow and to-the-point. It's positively hilarious.

But back on topic, I agree with the others. What partners she had is her problem, and her's alone. Past partners should not affect your decision to be with her, save she was with a man who was twenty-seven, bald, and preferred to be called Jimbo even though his name was Daniel.

The only time past partners should be a problem is when they appear to be FAR too close of a friend.

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There is a saying.."do what ever makes you happy" so...If it bothers you then you know the drill.
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i'm actually afraid to know what "the drill" is...
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i'm actually afraid to know what "the drill" is...
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if you don't like it then don't go out with her.
Sounds like you all-ready know it.
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what are you doing up so damn late virgin?
Hey, its only 2:05 am ok lol. I have trouble sleeping. How would you know how late it is?. What are you doing up so late misombra?
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i am enjoying an empty house. it is rare.
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i am enjoying an empty house. it is rare.

I see. Well..im going to try to get some sleep lol.
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