Attraction isn't a choice

[Theya38]

Hi all -

Has anyone figured out away to actually feel attracted to nice guys?
I meet tons of guys that are nice, and that are interested in me,
and all I can think to myself in these situations is "I wish I was attracted to him!"

But the truth is I'm not attracted to nice guys.

I know it's all about me, and how I'm attracted to that which is unavailable, and blah blah blah. But I'm wondering if any of you have tools that have helped you change your perception internally, not just logically?

And yes, I've had plenty therapy.

Thanks in advance!
Theya

[No Bodies Hero]

It is a little known fact that a person is always attracted to something that they can't have, let it be a car, a person, or money.

[1reason1love]

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Originally Posted by No Bodies Hero

It is a little known fact that a person is always attracted to something that they can't have, let it be a car, a person, or money.

well, i was attracted to my ex like nothing else in the world and i got her...

[TenorTwo]

I'mma pretend that this doesn't sound horribly shallow, and I'm going to say,

When you have real, deep, and true feelings for someone, they become more attractive than anyone else. Or at least that's how I feel.

[Only-virgins]

I dont know why you are attracted to dumbasses. I find chicks that are attracted to bad boys(aka dumbass idiots) a turn off so its a good thing for me that they are not attracted to me. Hmm kind of works out.

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Originally Posted by No Bodies Hero

It is a little known fact that a person is always attracted to something that they can't have, let it be a car, a person, or money.

Thats not true..If I really want a car and all of a sudden it magically apears infront of me...till I get bored of it I am happy and satisfied with my want.