Online Realtionships

[Robin]

I have been speaking with this Girl on the internet now for a matter of weeks and we both have very strong feelings about each-other i am 16 she is soon to be 15, we have exchanged photo's and now she is getting a Webcam so we can speak over the net like that, the problem is she lives in Canada and i UK, soon i will be able to go and see her when she is 16, we both love eachother, do you think it it worth holding onto this realtionship,

Thanx for any help

[ineedsomespace]

It's a tricky one. This is where the internet delivers the promise of love no matter where you are in the world - and then leaves you to worry about how the hell it's really going to work when you're thousands of miles apart.

It probably isn't want you want to hear, but unless ultimately you are prepared to live in Canada or she wants to move to the UK, there's no future to the relationship. Sure, you can visit each other, but if you get too involved, chances are you'll be miserable when you are apart, which will be MOST of the time.

Keep her as a friend - don't get too involved. That's my advice. Easy to give, harder to take.

[Robin]

Thanx for the reply, and yes she is going to move, she has problems which i am not gonna say, but has had major disputes with her mother, she is depressed, and i am prepared to go over there as soon a possible,

[Illusional]

well i'm glad that you realize this is mere attraction. trust me, it's better this way. raverboy